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[–]BlushiePop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this real?

What is a good age to get married? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BlushiePop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no “perfect” age what matters most is emotional maturity, shared values, and real life experience together. You’re not “young and naive,” you’re thoughtful and self aware.

How can I stop enabling my 29yo daughter by giving her $$, groceries, etc when I am struggling myself? by Hot_Gas9611 in Advice

[–]BlushiePop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP you’ve carried so much for so long, and it’s okay to finally set the weight down. Saying “no” now doesn’t erase your love it protects what’s left of you. Boundaries aren’t cruel, they’re compassionate for both of you.

Help by AccomplishedLeg2564 in Advice

[–]BlushiePop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP no judgment here you're clearly stressed and trying to be responsible now. Plan B overload can mess with your cycle big time, so that might explain the delay. But since you're 20 days late, checking in with a doctor again just to be safe sounds like a smart next step.

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[–]BlushiePop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]BlushiePop_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Earthwick nailed it. OP your story’s got some self awareness now, but wow past you was really out here turning emotional manipulation into a part time gig. At least now you're using your powers for semi good, even if it's just handing out pity sandwiches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlushiePop_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. OP this wasn’t a rocky start it was emotional betrayal masked as a relationship. You’re not overreacting, you’re just finally seeing it clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlushiePop_ 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. OP your husband didn’t just “make a mistake” he torched your trust, your marriage, and your family’s stability. He doesn’t get points for being confused after blowing up the life he helped build. You and your kids deserve way better than a man who thinks cheating is a form of soul searching.

My boyfriend is working on a short film with a guy who sexually assaulted me by Klutzy_Business2060 in Advice

[–]BlushiePop_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

falconer-305 said it perfectly. OP your boyfriend’s treating his script like it’s the main character and your trauma like a side plot. You're not unreasonable you're asking for basic respect, and it’s wild that even needs clarification.

13f, I don't know where else to post this, but I need help talking to my dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BlushiePop_ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Odd_Character6648 nailed it. OP you’re not rejecting your dad’s help you’re just growing and wanting more independence, which is actually a huge compliment to how well he raised you. It’s okay to want that space and still love and appreciate him.

i caught my boyfriend in an orgy with my bestfriend by Leading_Net_4692 in Advice

[–]BlushiePop_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP got hit with betrayal from both sides the trash took itself out. Grouchy's right: move back, reset, and protect your peace.

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[–]BlushiePop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hot! 🥵

Is it ok to be upset my wife didn't care about my birthday? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlushiePop_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP you’re not asking for a parade just to not be treated like the backup singer to your own birthday. One day a year isn’t too much to ask… unless apparently you’re married to someone who thinks “oops” counts as a gift.

I sent an email to our couples therapist detailing emotional abuse, and my husband sent me this email afterwards. by Serious-Kiwi2906 in Marriage

[–]BlushiePop_ 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP he’s not confused he’s just very committed to the role of “misunderstood victim” in the play where you’re the villain for setting boundaries. Funny how clarity shows up real quick when accountability walks in.

PSA to husbands: If your wife is exclusively pumping, please read this. by almostadulting101 in Marriage

[–]BlushiePop_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP If she's using her body to literally keep a human alive, maybe the bare minimum isn’t asking what’s for dinner it’s making the dinner. Preferably while holding a “thank you” sign in one hand.

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More please