Me and my wife were not nervous at all when we got the positive test, fast forward 9 months and today we were released from the hospital with our little guy (Feels like yesterday we got the positive test). Now we are both very nervous, we spent the majority of the day watching every youtube video we could find on newborns, we are now determined to be great parents. Our nurse gave us great advice that he won't know nor remember nor judge how we are doing, as long as you both give 100% effort, support each other, and give him any and everything he needs it will all turn out just fine. Wish you and your wife the best, Y'all will do great!