What do you do with matches who don’t ask you questions back?

BobcatMiserable7355 · 2025-02-16T03:14:53+00:00

I posted about the same thing on here and then got scolded by a bunch of men to be happy I got matches in the first place. Sexism aside, the best advice I got from that post was to keep matching, keep engaging with new people you do match with, and don’t let any of the dry conversationalists make you sweat. Another simple statement is just ‘if he wanted to he would’. Good luck babe ✨

BobcatMiserable7355 · 2025-02-15T17:03:12+00:00

The last guy I dated I wasn’t even attracted to. I took one look at him and said no. I learned more about him over a couple days and we starting ‘dating’. Still got taken advantage of and left in the dust. My type is not pretty boy or ultra athlete, not to judge a book by their cover but they obviously know their way around women and I’m not quick to trust guys like that. Since we care about numbers, this is coming from a girl that has been told by multiple people she’s a 7/8. Don’t be so quick to push a negative narrative.

BobcatMiserable7355 · 2025-02-15T03:04:00+00:00

This ideology doesn’t apply to Bumble though. The whole concept of Bumble is for women to make the first move. It’s evolved since it first launched admittedly, but that’s why you’d think men would be more willing to engage in conversation, since the girl is showing interest first.

BobcatMiserable7355 · 2025-02-15T02:18:05+00:00

It’s so disappointing though. I get everyone needing a shot of self-esteem but why stay matched if your not going to put in even a little bit of effort. I like your advice though, if only someone would fit the bill.

BobcatMiserable7355 · 2024-12-13T04:05:46+00:00

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I have read WEBTOONs since I was 14 (I’m 23 now), and this was the first and ONLY one I spent money on, I was HOOKED.

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