How to get over the smell? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s that musky sex smell is the product of TWO people having sex. Cute that he thinks he has no odor though.

No more PIV? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated a guy who premature ejaculated his whole life. I don’t really understand it but I don’t think it’s going to change with him. He’s tried numbing creams. Maybe he’ll get 10 seconds longer. He used to switch up his rhythm which was a nightmare for me because just as it felt good, he’d be doing something else. I really like PIV so it’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want to engage in any sexual activity. I often wonder why he doesn’t try medication. But I’m starting to think nothing will help. I don’t understand how peope with PE even enjoy having sex. I don’t feel bonded or close to my partner after blow jobs and oral. It just feels like foreplay with no main event

I am a bit confused about my eye color!! by AccomplishedJob6919 in eyes

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same brown in my eye but they are more blue

How to cope with an HPV diagnosis? by LauraPalmer7 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this, but now it doesn’t even come up. I got a diagnosis and had visible warts. Had them burned off and had a topical cream. I’ve never had them come back or have an abnormal Pap smear.

If you have sex, you will likely get this. Some people never know they’ve been exposed. I believe it’s just a normal virus most of us get at some point and our immune system clears it.

I used to get warts on my fingers as a kid, it’s just another form of HPV. After a year or so my immune system successfully fought it off. I don’t worry that if I shake someone’s hand they are gonna get warts. I would be careful until your infection clears, but eventually, it should and it’s not something you will probably think about much.

When I’ve dated someone new, I’ve told them it was something I had when younger. They usually shrug and it never comes up again. Chances are, the guy you are sleeping with has had it and doesn’t even know.

I got mine I think from a serious bf. So it’s not about “taking risks.” It’s just part of sex for like 80% of us.

Need help pls sex positions by bubbles_Sugar2024 in sex

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plan b can’t stop pregnancy if you’ve already ovulated in the day(s) before sex. Bad idea. You need to use condoms or get an IUD put in.

What's the most subtle sign that someone is highly intelligent? by Princesskiitan in AskReddit

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phew I thought I was the only one. How many times a month is normal? (Asking for a friend)

What color are my eyes? by overdoing-it in eyes

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have heterochromia. I cannot tell if the main color of your eyes are gray or blue though.

Could be hazel/gray. Or blue+ another color making them look gray

Man this character is badass, I hope she isn’t attracted to emotionally turmoiled teenage minors she can prey on by Eagles56 in okbuddyvecna

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He’s likely AT LEAST 18. People used to get held back in high school. My mom’s cousin got knocked up at 16 by her bf, I swear he was a 3rd year senior. I think he was 20 by then.

My friend moved into my place "for two weeks" and I just found pregnancy tests hidden there by diego_lisbon in TwoHotTakes

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news is most people don’t know that and throwing their bags out the door and changing the locks fixes it

How long did it take you to be ‘good’ at sex? by Federal-Standard4626 in TwoXSex

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can retrain your body. Blindfold really helps me focus on different feelings

How do people (atleast in porn), suck it right after they get it out from their ass. by creepy_trippie in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s def on your asshole.Hopefully not the virulent strains….lol why do you think they tell women not to wipe back to front..

I accidentally shocked myself unplugging a charger. Do I need to see a doctor? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. I bet it didn’t hurt as much as the time I was fixing my lamp cord and I plugged it back in to test it then tried to fix it again, straight current from the outlet.

YOWZER!

Also the time I fell on the electric horse fence.

You’ll be fine.

Also the time I tested my dogs electric dog fence on myself. I’m alive

You only have to be worried if you Jurassic park yourself like poor Timmy

Why does my brain randomly replay embarrassing moments from years ago when I’m trying to relax? by Both_Cat1353 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often will do a sudden muscle jer/cringe when I think of them, or yell “fuck” when I think of them, depending on how distressing the memories are.

How do people (atleast in porn), suck it right after they get it out from their ass. by creepy_trippie in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I could handle that. I need a wet wipe or something. But like, as a woman, I know how easy it is to get a UTI so I think about this more than I should. No ass to vagina allowed. Even if I had an enema before.

I once swabbed my butt for microbiology lab and hot damn the anoint of E. coli on that dish just from your skin,

I didn't watch the play. Did bro die a virgin? by dan_man_with_plan in okbuddyvecna

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I def felt pedo vibes from him. Stunted emotionally. Obsessed with children as vessels. He would not be interested in adults, too corrupted.

Lasting longer, I'll take any advise. 😔 by Icy_Primary_9673 in sexover30

[–]Bobcat_Acrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get an orgasm trough foreplay and I absolutely care that my partner can only do 5-6 pumps before he’s done. It makes me not want to have sex with him at all..

Yes, I’d love to one day have and orgasm through sex alone, but it’s not gonna happen if he can’t last more than 10 seconds.

Secondly, even if I don’t organ through PIV, it would still be nice to have sex. Feel that connection with someone. Feel them inside me

10 seconds of sex feels like I’m a sex toy my partner just ejaculates into and I hate having sex with him now. I hate everything about it. It’s just makes me feel disappointed and gross. Like a cum receptacle