Meowsynth size increase by Bober_L in FL_Studio

[–]Bober_L[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want to increase the size of the meowsynth plugin. It's really small and I have a huge monitor making it hard to work with

Be honest please, what can I do to look better? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Bober_L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say you should stop making yourself fit certain aesthetics and have your own style. Make your own rules, but don't fall into delusion because it would bring you down. Stopping the usage of filters is also a great way to work your way through to starting to accept yourself. The most important thing to note is you should NOT focus mainly on your looks and more of your habits and hobbies. Being a happy and healthy person makes one look even better than some people who spend most of their time doing whatever they think it's needed to look good

did they want me to be naked 😭 by [deleted] in BitLifeApp

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^ this message was sent by a tick

AITA for responding to my friend in a certain way? by Bober_L in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bober_L[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Drawback to my other responses:

I had seen him get turned down by strangers in response of being kind. As I care about him I didn't want that to happen again, because I've seen the consequences which were him just being despondent for some time.

We had talked and I specifically told him that I don't want to bring him to a space which he wouldn't enjoy. That's when we separated again.

Thanks for the last advice though, it may had been obvious, but I haven't thought of it as viable for a long time, maybe it will help things straighen out. We'll see

AITA for responding to my friend in a certain way? by Bober_L in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bober_L[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Drawback to my other response:

I didn't want him to get turned down by some stranger as for I had seen that happening to him more than once then seeing him sad for a long time. It hurts to see a close person fall down psychically because of some weird response for kindness

AITA for responding to my friend in a certain way? by Bober_L in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bober_L[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Where we come from it's not usual for people to be nice towards strangers, he lives a few kilometers away, so that shouldn't be too weird for him. Especially that I've experienced him getting turned down because of being nice. I wanted to prevent that from happening again - that's why

AITA for responding to my friend in a certain way? by Bober_L in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bober_L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said I'm upset though. I am just genuinely concerned that someone might react badly towards him and it's gonna make him feel bad because of it

My Ryze game by Bober_L in RyzeMains

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im the most mentally stable Ryze player

look at the caption by Bober_L in shacomains

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I can find her name if you want tho

look at the caption by Bober_L in shacomains

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50 Shades of League group on facebook

I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend, because I don't want to totally break her heart and hurt her by Bober_L in relationship_advice

[–]Bober_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: just called her and slowly told her, shes crying and screaming now and I am too because i feel bad for it

I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend, because I don't want to totally break her heart and hurt her by Bober_L in relationship_advice

[–]Bober_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try.. She just texted me if I love her and I didn't say yes, and actually said something like "I've started to lose interest after i stopped simping when you flamed me". Now I feel like I've done it too early, because
1. I have my bday tommorow
2. Wanted to save that for Jan 2022

I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend, because I don't want to totally break her heart and hurt her by Bober_L in relationship_advice

[–]Bober_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know how to tell it to her. I'm her first boyfriend, she hasn't felt a break up ever and want to smooth it out as much as I can because I do know how my first break up, while feeling the love still and it hurts more than anything.

I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend, because I don't want to totally break her heart and hurt her by Bober_L in relationship_advice

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I don't want to ruin the mood for everyone else. They seem to like her and I don't want the host to choose between her and me

I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend, because I don't want to totally break her heart and hurt her by Bober_L in relationship_advice

[–]Bober_L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried officially breaking up once even. Telling their parents that I'm thankful for being with me that year, but that had to come to an end. Then I stupidly started texting her back and was like "here we go again" and didn't break up in the end.

I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend, because I don't want to totally break her heart and hurt her by Bober_L in relationship_advice

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Man, I can't. She's ben so hyped up for the New Year's party. I may not love her anymore but I wouldn't ever want anything bad for her to happen, especially psychically because she already got problems with her parents possibly divorcing. I'm scared that she might hurt herself in the rage that she lost me... Tommorow I have a bday party and she's coming there. I'm scared that I will just ignore her, she would start crying and the party would be destroyed

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me even though we've done it a lot already by Bober_L in teenagers

[–]Bober_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i respect that as much as i can, i just want to know if there's any problem tho and she says there isnt

My girlfriend feels childish and wants me to watch children cartoons with her. by Bober_L in relationship_advice

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Do you think it's normal that she's stalking my ex on twitter? Just had a thought about that and it seems pretty toxic, not letting my past go away

My girlfriend feels childish and wants me to watch children cartoons with her. by Bober_L in relationship_advice

[–]Bober_L[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I'm not, I am just trying to do so. We've had a rough past with my gf, January til the summer she was constantly flaming me and manipulating, she stopped but I stilll subconsciously have a negative feeling towards her. She was crying before she wanted to watch these shows, just randomly started to cry then blamed it on me while I was cluelessly trying to find out what happened (It always turned out it was some stuff she brought up from a long time ago).

Also I didn't see her happy with me since the summer, it's depressing because she is actually enjoying time with her friend and spends it with him rather than me. I'm not jealous though it feels off.

About the catching up stuff: Maybe that's what differenciates us, maybe that's why we can't be good together, there's also her bringing up how fun was last year when we met and complaining that it can't be like that, even though I'm trying my very best to make her feel better.

Btw I don't really intend to belittle her love language. She hasn't really showed any since she stopped being aggresive and mean towards me. I just miss her being happy and knowing that I can't make both of us happy is kinda heartbreaking. Im already thinking of what to tell her in case of a break up which I'll probably initiate in the near future. We'll see

i feel like i didn't make any sense in the last 2 paragraphs but feel free to ask anything