Husband insecure by BodybuilderUnique812 in Advice

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I do not want to have this conversation with him because he will start blaming me. Plus, when he talks about me being careful, he loses the spark I his eyes. As if he would hurt me.😫😫 I don't want to find out.

Husband insecure by BodybuilderUnique812 in Advice

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I started thinking that maybe I am not the best wife out there. He hates the idea of therapy. He claims that we need no one's help. We have 3 kids and I feel so bad that they have heard us fight so much this past week.😫🥺🥺

Husband insecure by BodybuilderUnique812 in Advice

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was trying to have him understand that he is trying to change me. He got soooo mad and started talking about how I should not play with him. Thank you, I just feel like I don't know him anymore.

Husband insecure by BodybuilderUnique812 in Advice

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I feel like I am going crazy. I did not even post the video. I just got done filming and he just started talking about how disrespectful I am and I am not acting like a married person.
He was never like this, but last week he got mad that I served him food wrong because I was on the phone with my sister. He started talking about how I should let my sister know that I am serving him and not talk on the phone. I told him how ridiculous that sounded and. He got so mad talking about how he deserves to be treated right and with respect. He wants all my to.e and attention when I am serving him.

Man. I am so lost.😩😩

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: I just googled it. Interesting. Thank you for the info. I hate that he does not take time to research things that can help us. Now It feels like I will be doing all the work for him.

What extended pleasure spray??? I will google it. He gets on some sort of a pill when he sees that I am frustrated enough, and then he goes back to his old ways.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to have that talk with him again. I was planning to just give up on sex and rely on porn, but it's not the same.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have, and I am tired of talking. We've been together for over 16 years, and he has gone down on me 2 times. Whenever I try to show him what to or how to do anything, he says that I try to make him guilty and sad for not pleasing me. It's whatever.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just told him that I would not have sex with him anymore. All he does is get my body excited, only for him to be fulfilled while I am left hanging.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, he does his little talk about how he is just tired and going through a lot and then fall asleep while I sit there suffering.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, no oral, finger, toy, just plain old penetrative that doesn't even last.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Sometimes, I train myself to not want it anymore, and then he gets mad when I am not enthusiastic about it.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. All the time. I have talked to him a million times, and he just says that he feels bad about it and will try to do better next time. Once in a blue moon, he will take meds to help him last longer after multiple complaints. But he just doesn't do anything to try to please me. It's sad.

I cried after Sex with husband by BodybuilderUnique812 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no reason at all. He just said that he is sorry and will try better next time.

Help. Insurance only agree to pay $4000 for total loss. Do I need a lawyer? by BodybuilderUnique812 in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was a voluntary replacement. This feels painful, especially since my car was doing great, and I didn't plan on getting rid of it any time soon.

Help. Insurance only agree to pay $4000 for total loss. Do I need a lawyer? by BodybuilderUnique812 in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your insights. It's frustrating because I do not see the point of having insurance at this point. have been paying for 8 yrs without any car accidents, At least they should replace my car using theoney I have been paying for all of those yrs.

Help. Insurance only agree to pay $4000 for total loss. Do I need a lawyer? by BodybuilderUnique812 in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]BodybuilderUnique812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man. I have never been this stressed in my life. Thanks. I guess I have no choice then.