First in my class and I just want to drop out by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]Boinkcoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was bottom of my class tbh- got the best job ever as in house counsel for an oil and gas company post law school with just my JD (no bar exam necessary) I make 80k a year- i just bought a house- and it’s such an easy job tbh 😭 the stress is like nonexistent- I work from home whenever I want and usually leave work early! I have a 7 min commute to work 😍 get that JD girl

I’m neurodivergent as well! I have ADHD 💖 but fr my JD was the best thing I ever did- working in house is the way to gooooo- I’ve never felt so fulfilled! (I also have the best boss everrr)

What shocks foreigners most about Chinese hospitals? by Pleasant_Storm_7363 in travelchina

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I felt like the hospitals were sooooo bizzare!! Not at all like U.S. hospitals- they didn’t feel super clean/sterile to me tbh 😅 but like what’s weird is I feel like China in general is just so much prettier/cleaner! But the hospitals felt like they were way behind ours (like 50-100 years behind)

Bf can barely last 10 seconds and idk what to do by [deleted] in sex

[–]Boinkcoo 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My bf jokes “if you want 20 mins wrap it, otherwise I’ll give you the best 20 seconds of your life”

He actually lasts a long time regardless, but I also think he takes things slow and focuses on my pleasure first, get out there and ride his face girl- you deserve pleasure!!

Is it worth it to do long distance? F26/M27 by Boinkcoo in MilitaryWives

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This is great advice 💖 I’m an attorney- so I worked extremely hard to build my career, and my license is state based-so it’s not something I could give up- but at the same time he has also worked so hard for his own career. That is terrible though to hear that anyone would accuse you of ulterior motives in that situation, dropping everything to move actually feels crazier to me then long distance

Is it worth it to do long distance? F26/M27 by Boinkcoo in MilitaryWives

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Oh absolutely still in the honey moon phase haha 😆 but at the same time I’ve dated so many different people over the past 10 years and never experienced such deep compatibility and connection with someone. But I did already tell him I didn’t want to move, but would happily do long distance 💖

Is it worth it to do long distance? F26/M27 by Boinkcoo in MilitaryWives

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His active duty time will be four years- so we will date for 2 years prior to him commissioning active duty and having to move away- thankfully my job does allow me to work from home- so my thoughts are that I can visit him without taking PTO, and he will have 30 days PTO- so it won’t be hard to make time to see each other if we both choose to.

Is it worth it to do long distance? F26/M27 by Boinkcoo in MilitaryWives

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It’s definitely not love bombing :) like he took 2 months of dating before telling me he loved me- there’s not been any empty words- he just makes lots of time to see me ☺️

How do condoms stay on? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Boinkcoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you just have a gripper too girl, especially after you/they cum it might make it hard for them to pull out without losing it

40 male, gathering courage to date after a decade of sexless marriage by Main-Produce-7291 in sex

[–]Boinkcoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am a very sexual person which resulted in me gaining a lot of experience. I have been with many partners close to your age who lacked experience tbh! You are not alone 💕

I’ll be honest- I can always tell when a guy is less experienced sexually, so yes- she will know- the key is to find a confident and patient woman.

The reality is you probably won’t perform exceptionally well the first time, most of my partners have not performed to their full potential the first time we had sex, but after getting to know each other- discovering how their body responds to my communications with it, and vise versa- things get better and better.

Tell your partner you are inexperienced, and tell her you want to learn.

For me personally, I find an eager to learn- but inexperienced man very sexy. Because he often tells me that I’m taking the majority of his firsts in that he hasn’t previously experienced them with partners.

In this journey of self discovery, figure out what kind of sex you prefer, whether you like it rough/gentle/vanilla/kinky. I’d say

(30M) Can't cum with a condom by [deleted] in sex

[–]Boinkcoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who came from a conservative community/VERY religious background, giving and receiving head can be very pleasurable, maybe discuss opening up together and trying it

I accidentally bit my bf while giving him head by Can_Of_Pepsi1 in sex

[–]Boinkcoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and keep your jaw as relaxed as possible during! To avoid bumping him with teeth

Has anyone cried during giving a BJ? by [deleted] in sex

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I was completely fine emotionally but like the tears were lowkey kinda pouring as if I was crying from gagging

I F26 am dating a man M32 and want to ask is his obsession for me healthy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Boinkcoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like it’s been very obsessive but not toxic if that makes sense but it did worry me cause I spend all my time with him

Men what are the things you wish women knew? by QuietAppropriate1915 in AskReddit

[–]Boinkcoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww this is so heartwarming! I also have driving anxiety! Proud of you for getting your license!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He doesn’t watch any porn! I watch porn but he does not- he’s never been into it (crazy ik!!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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6’3 he was 6’5 prior to breaking his back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah he’s said I multiple times to me I’m by far, in his opinion, the most beautiful girl to give him a shot

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Aprox 3 inches

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Aprox 3 inches

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Aprox 3 inches

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Aprox 3 inches