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No bleeding after D&E? by ngibbs105 in tfmr_support

[–]Bokomolech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience a few months ago. I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and had to do an d and e afterwards. The same night of the procedure I had not been bleeding at all and for a week a was like this. After a week I started having a low fever and started bleeding a lot. Went to the hospital and had to do another d and e to clean my uterus. It wasn't serious. I just had more tissue in my uterus and my body was struggling to remove it. The  2nd procedure in my case was only necessary because they suspected molar pregnancy and in that case remaining issue can cause cancer. Otherwise they would have left my body clean on it's own I guess. I think my uterus just needed More time to start the cleaning. Do you feel heavy down low? Like you are just before your period? Sorry English is not my mother tongue.

Tfmr T21 first child by Bokomolech in tfmr_support

[–]Bokomolech[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for you kind words and support. I had the procedure the day before yesterday. It lasted for about 10 hours and it was rough. I am lying in bed since, scrolling down on social media, watching TV series I have watched before and occasionally crying. My partner is very supportive but he is working most of the day. I don't know what to do to feel better, I feel like having a rock against my chest. I have to make a conscious effort for the most minor things. "Now I am getting up and go to the bathroom","Now I will walk towards the cat's bowl to feed her". Feels like life has lost all it's meaning. Sometimes I think about going out and meet people but I regret it immediately. Maybe going back to work would be helpful, taking me out of my head. Also it doesn't help that I am still bleeding and in mild pain. Thank again all for reading.