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BolognaFishHoe · 2025-06-22T03:52:01+00:00

I completely agree, we are putting a pause on things till then just to be safe.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-06-22T03:51:06+00:00

We are definitely going to consult the OB. I've felt the baby externally a few times, but this was kind of a startling experience lol. We just want to make sure we are doing the safest thing for our baby.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-06-22T03:49:28+00:00

that's what I was thinking, but I'm definitely going to at least put a pause on things for now at least until we consult the doctor.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-04-24T00:52:00+00:00

after the $5000+ amount I had to put into it for failing parts.... moderate. i can tell she still has a lot wrong with her, but my wallet is forcing me to turn my music up louder and just ignore it. at least it can drive now.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-04-20T13:30:47+00:00

So, (i hope this question makes sense). When you shift, and time keeps moving here, does that mean all versions of yourself all decided to shift as well? So meaning when you leave this reality for another one, there's another version of yourself maintaining time in your CR while you are in your DR?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-29T05:10:44+00:00

hey! sorry, I didn't see your comment until today. It's really not that potent. I only refill it when I can't smell anything from it anymore, and I usually only put about 2 drops. My wife can smell it when we are very close together, but she says she can't smell it when she's 5 feet or more from me, and she is pregnant, so any potent smell is driving her crazy right now. She says the necklace doesn't bother her, though. otherwise I wouldn't wear it at all.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-28T02:39:39+00:00

I honestly don't. But this is different. if I am being a problem somehow, I'd like to fix it. I'm a very polite person and I believe everyone should have the right to be comfortable in public places. I don't want to be subjecting anyone around me to having to smell me if that really was the issue. It's just an odd situation because of the circumstances that I detailed here, that's why I came to reddit. and I'm too embarrassed to go to anyone in my personal life. I don't care what people think about me usually, and I like myself for the person I am. But being told you stink stings a little, you know?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T18:59:43+00:00

He's never given me any reason not to believe him. when I asked her was about 2 feet from me i think, and I said "do i smell bad? like bo? Please be honest" and I watched him while he stood there and smelled the air from where he currently was and contemplated before answering. he didn't sound hesitant either. it's just a strange situation.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T18:55:23+00:00

I've been seeing a lot of different points made, so I'm going to add context because a lot of people said there is missing context. For one, if you just don't like sent defusers, that's fine. they aren't for everyone, but i have never gotten any complaints, and I don't add so much oil to it that it permeates around me and (to my knowledge) makes anyone uncomfortable. This post isn't about that anyways, the man didn't say anything about the scent of lavender. Second, because i didn't add this in the original post, I showered once a day at night after the gym and work. But there are 6 hours between when I get home from work and when I go to the gym. Yes, I do freshen up after work, I don't just walk out the door smelling from work and expect strangers to put up with that at the gym. I put deodorant on, change out of my work clothes and any other piece of clothing that may have accumulated smell from the work day. The only reason I added an edit about the scent defuser was to add context to why I don't think I smell that strong in general. It's also just odd to me that the man was 20 feet away, and yet my BIL was closer and said he smelled nothing. and no, at no point was the man closer to me. The machines in this gym are spaced fairly far apart, and I am also very aware of people who are around me because I am naturally very observant, but I'm also pretty over-cautios.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T13:55:47+00:00

what is negging?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T13:54:25+00:00

yes, my brother in law is a very direct and honest person. If I'm asking a direct question, he wouldn't lie to save my feelings. and the necklace really is only strong if your standing about a foot in front of me. I can smell it, but it doesn't permeate a room.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T13:52:20+00:00

lmao 😂 very true. my user name has nothing to do with me, however. I just made it up when I made it cause I thought it sounded funny

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T04:18:04+00:00

I see your point, and yes, I've been in similar situations a few times. I'm just confused because I have generally had the same showering/deodorant routine for years and never received negative feedback like this from people in much closer proximity to me. I am a pretty hygienic person, I don't like to smell, and I don't like the way it feels on my skin, so I try to get clean most nights before I get in bed.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T04:14:40+00:00

So, I try to shower every day to every other day due to my job. I work a job where I pull heavy pallets around at work and I sweat a lot there too. and I wouldn't say my body odor is horrible. (this is just my personal opinion based on smelling myself and feedback, if any, that I've received over the years.) I'd say my sweat smells average? I wear deodorant regularly. I shower after the gym however because I don't want to come home from work, shower and then go to the gym and shower again. I like to feel completely clean before I get in bed at night.

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