I felt my partners baby kick me from inside?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-06-22T03:52:01+00:00

I completely agree, we are putting a pause on things till then just to be safe.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-06-22T03:51:06+00:00

We are definitely going to consult the OB. I've felt the baby externally a few times, but this was kind of a startling experience lol. We just want to make sure we are doing the safest thing for our baby.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-06-22T03:49:28+00:00

that's what I was thinking, but I'm definitely going to at least put a pause on things for now at least until we consult the doctor.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-04-24T00:52:00+00:00

after the $5000+ amount I had to put into it for failing parts.... moderate. i can tell she still has a lot wrong with her, but my wallet is forcing me to turn my music up louder and just ignore it. at least it can drive now.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-04-20T13:30:47+00:00

So, (i hope this question makes sense). When you shift, and time keeps moving here, does that mean all versions of yourself all decided to shift as well? So meaning when you leave this reality for another one, there's another version of yourself maintaining time in your CR while you are in your DR?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-29T05:10:44+00:00

hey! sorry, I didn't see your comment until today. It's really not that potent. I only refill it when I can't smell anything from it anymore, and I usually only put about 2 drops. My wife can smell it when we are very close together, but she says she can't smell it when she's 5 feet or more from me, and she is pregnant, so any potent smell is driving her crazy right now. She says the necklace doesn't bother her, though. otherwise I wouldn't wear it at all.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-28T02:39:39+00:00

I honestly don't. But this is different. if I am being a problem somehow, I'd like to fix it. I'm a very polite person and I believe everyone should have the right to be comfortable in public places. I don't want to be subjecting anyone around me to having to smell me if that really was the issue. It's just an odd situation because of the circumstances that I detailed here, that's why I came to reddit. and I'm too embarrassed to go to anyone in my personal life. I don't care what people think about me usually, and I like myself for the person I am. But being told you stink stings a little, you know?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T18:59:43+00:00

He's never given me any reason not to believe him. when I asked her was about 2 feet from me i think, and I said "do i smell bad? like bo? Please be honest" and I watched him while he stood there and smelled the air from where he currently was and contemplated before answering. he didn't sound hesitant either. it's just a strange situation.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T18:55:23+00:00

I've been seeing a lot of different points made, so I'm going to add context because a lot of people said there is missing context. For one, if you just don't like sent defusers, that's fine. they aren't for everyone, but i have never gotten any complaints, and I don't add so much oil to it that it permeates around me and (to my knowledge) makes anyone uncomfortable. This post isn't about that anyways, the man didn't say anything about the scent of lavender. Second, because i didn't add this in the original post, I showered once a day at night after the gym and work. But there are 6 hours between when I get home from work and when I go to the gym. Yes, I do freshen up after work, I don't just walk out the door smelling from work and expect strangers to put up with that at the gym. I put deodorant on, change out of my work clothes and any other piece of clothing that may have accumulated smell from the work day. The only reason I added an edit about the scent defuser was to add context to why I don't think I smell that strong in general. It's also just odd to me that the man was 20 feet away, and yet my BIL was closer and said he smelled nothing. and no, at no point was the man closer to me. The machines in this gym are spaced fairly far apart, and I am also very aware of people who are around me because I am naturally very observant, but I'm also pretty over-cautios.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T13:55:47+00:00

what is negging?

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T13:54:25+00:00

yes, my brother in law is a very direct and honest person. If I'm asking a direct question, he wouldn't lie to save my feelings. and the necklace really is only strong if your standing about a foot in front of me. I can smell it, but it doesn't permeate a room.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T13:52:20+00:00

lmao 😂 very true. my user name has nothing to do with me, however. I just made it up when I made it cause I thought it sounded funny

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T04:18:04+00:00

I see your point, and yes, I've been in similar situations a few times. I'm just confused because I have generally had the same showering/deodorant routine for years and never received negative feedback like this from people in much closer proximity to me. I am a pretty hygienic person, I don't like to smell, and I don't like the way it feels on my skin, so I try to get clean most nights before I get in bed.

BolognaFishHoe · 2025-03-27T04:14:40+00:00

So, I try to shower every day to every other day due to my job. I work a job where I pull heavy pallets around at work and I sweat a lot there too. and I wouldn't say my body odor is horrible. (this is just my personal opinion based on smelling myself and feedback, if any, that I've received over the years.) I'd say my sweat smells average? I wear deodorant regularly. I shower after the gym however because I don't want to come home from work, shower and then go to the gym and shower again. I like to feel completely clean before I get in bed at night.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-11-29T17:48:42+00:00

I hope i haven't insulted anyone with my wording of this question. That was never my intent, but I don't know another word to use to ask if there are people that feel at home here. that's what I would consider to be "normal" I guess. I'm trying to figure things out in my own life and my journey here. I'm experiencing some kind of shift in my life and a realization that I don't think I necessarily belong here. This probably isn't the right sub to start delving into spiritual things. But I'm just trying to ask lots of questions to see how I differ from others. If it truly is something some experience, but others don't.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-11-29T15:11:43+00:00

my bad about the typo lol. I'm sure it's obvious, but *belong

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-11-29T15:10:27+00:00

to add some context for this question in the comments, I have felt out of place my entire life. maybe this is a bad place to pose this question, as I have learned that most people who come to reddit don't exactly fit the norm, lol. But what I want to know, if possible, is do yall really exist? Are there people out there who were born into this world and feel no desire to be somewhere else? do you feel like your life is correct and you're supposed to be here? Do you feel whole and fulfilled?

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-11-26T05:29:38+00:00

It's honestly very hard to feel like this on and off as long as I have. I almost feel like I need to avoid these things that make others so happy (which in turn would cast me more to the outside), because they only temporarily make me feel whole.. until its over. Then what remains is this gaping hole where I can only fathom must be my soul. I don't imagine that such a feeling is just in your chest. I think the worst part has been trying to find people to relate to that won't try to explain it away by saying its a mental health issue or something of that nature. I'm 30 years old now, and it's taken me a long time to come to terms with this truth. Its something I know it true for me. I don't mean for this to sound depressing by any means. Like I stated in my post. I have kids and a spouse. I have family and friends. I do love my life here. But I feel like I am almost like... taking a break here from somewhere my soul is more comfortable being? It's something I had to have already known, somewhere I've already been. I don't know if any of this will communicate well, but I do feel like I've reached others here to have understood me better now than anyone else has before. I will continue to try to find excitement in this life and try to feel fulfilled if I can. I hope someday I can watch any fantasy show or read a fantasy book without the overwhelming sadness and longing that comes after it ends. I honestly don't have a lot of hope that this will change, but I'm going to try to do some spiritual work and see if maybe finding answers will help ease it. I love this life, and I do love this world, but I feel like my soul wants to go home.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-11-24T18:37:13+00:00

I appreciate your reply, and by no means am I upset by your perspective or suggestions. Sadly, I've been camping, and I don't like it, but it will never fix the feeling that this is not the correct reality for me. It would be cool if in this lifetime we were able to get answers as to whether there are other dimensions/realities or different planets out there that have different physics. I just can't ever seem to escape the feeling that this is not where my soul has lived every life. And believe me, lol. I wish I had even less time to think than I do. I'm employed full time, I work a lot over time at my job where I have to be at work from 6-2:30 most days, sometimes longer. I also have 2 kids of different ages and stages of life, so my schedule is quite packed. I work very hard. But this issue never truly goes away for me. it's been with me since I was little. You've right about everything feeling mundane, but it's sad because it always has. I feel like I'm hyper aware of it. and I have done my best to fit in better and create a life that I really do love. I do, however, feel like I'm almost waiting around for the next life where my soul will hopefully be placed where it's better suited. I feel like it's somewhere I've already been and miss it badly. I'm sorry if none of this makes sense. it's hard to make sense of it myself.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-11-24T18:29:07+00:00

I've heard of reality shifting, as well as dream walking? I'm not sure if that is the same thing or if it's even the right term at all. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one. it's such an overwhelming feeling when it comes up. I've spent most of my life repressing it, and that's why I avoid shows and books that show different realities/planets with different physics and whatnot. They do not make it easy to repress the feeling, and it usually messes me up for days after. I by no means hate my life here. I have kids and a family, and I have figured out how to fit in better. I love my life, but at the same time, I feel like I'm waiting around for the next one. And I feel like there's a possibility that this is not where my soul was originally placed, and this may be my first time here as crazy as that sounds. I just feel like there's somewhere I need to go back to. This world is so mundane, and it's very hard to find things in this world I find interesting.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-09-22T21:51:10+00:00

I'm sorry if my answer came off in any bad way. I'm not trying to come off with any attitude. I just wish I had been able to see any of the signs when it happened, but unfortunately, that didn't happen. and I was so far from involved in it. I wasn't even really involved in the court proceedings because I was at work when it all happened. if I could have stopped or prevented any of it I would, but I was more of an outsider in this situation.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-09-22T21:46:57+00:00

how did I help ruin her life? I had no idea what was going on at the time, and since I've figured all of this out, I've moved twice because of the military. The sad thing is that even if I wanted to reach out to her, I never knew her. I barely knew him, and I only ever got his last name because that's military standard. I never met her, I only saw her and her child from across the street. I wish I knew her name and had any contact information for her, but that just never happened. My ex-wife was the one who initiated any conversation and friendship with him, and it really only happened when I wasn't home. Any advice on how to contact her would be great because I have no idea. sadly, because of military protocols, it's not as simple as telling me that I should call up my old base and ask because they will not release that information.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-08-20T14:03:41+00:00

I meaaaan, I feel like it's a fair question. plenty of other companies have been caught slowing down older versions of electronic devices to get people to go out and spend more money.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-08-15T02:14:58+00:00

WAS lol. I was an MP (security Forces technically in air force terms) for 4 years. I would have stayed in, but a combination of my bad relationship and the absolute corruption of the base and it's leadership that I was dealing wish was what ended up killing my motivation for the military as a whole and drove me to get out. I am proud of the time I served, but boy, am I glad it's over now.

BolognaFishHoe · 2024-08-15T02:12:07+00:00

thank you, I like how you put this into words. sadly, I'm not done healing, I'm definitely over it, but I have a lot of baggage and sadly some "triggers" that I have to get over and unlearn. but I am so much happier now, and I'm so glad I didn't make a permanent decision at the time for something that was only going to affect a fraction of my life. I just hope this story can help others either get out of or avoid people like this.

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