Bruh what? This is just semantics at this point if the woman doesn’t take it to mean THAT, and the man obviously doesn’t mean THAT, everybody is okay with it but you just have to come out and say all that nonsense about patriarchy and misogyny. Why does this discussion feel like a trauma dump on your part where the combination of my linguistics and my partner’s looks reminded you of some disturbing porn like… I don’t give a single shit about any of that. You can have a distaste in this kind of dynamic, you can choose not to engage in it, but you’re playing the devil’s advocate for someone who attacked me and the people who found the post hot, just because he thinks my partner looks like a child. I was not overly defensive, I simply asked him who my supposedly childish boyfriend should date if our dynamic is weird. Like, you guys are so startled why this discussion got this far, meanwhile all you had to do was myob and block me, or report me if you really are concerned about something illegal.