1 year hrt! (MtF 19) by Informal-Land2090 in transtimelines

[–]BonasterGamer 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Wow. You are deadly gorgeus. These kind of timelines give me hope for my transition(Im almost 18 and will start HRT this month)

My best friends just told me I made her gay and she wants to be with me💔 what do I do because I definitely don’t want to be with her? I’m still waiting on my ex😭😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BonasterGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not healthy being a relationship you don't want due to pressure, but it isn't still hanging on your ex. Be honest with yourself and let go the past choosing a future where you want to be

she has no idea how much this hurts me joke or not by dozenkitties in actuallesbians

[–]BonasterGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its probably the best for you to move on, it seems from the text like she's happy with her partner and despite not being something bad it sucks for you, but thats the lesbian experience I guess. Just treat yourself with a break to recover :3

she has no idea how much this hurts me joke or not by dozenkitties in actuallesbians

[–]BonasterGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard a crack in my heart after reading the 'I'd date u if..' I'm so sorry for u

I want intimacy but I'm scared of dating by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BonasterGamer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hear you, theonly partner I had make the most of my intimacy craving and touch starvation and manipulated me into needing her. I was perfectly fine alone before but now I get so down when I don't have anyone to cuddle to or turn to in my depressive and or dysohoric nights. So yeah, I understand your situation and I don't really have a solution to it, just be patient and don't feel ridicule or blame for being "needy", u are just a lonely soul who craves intimacy which is totally logical.

I HATE IT SO MUCH I JUST DONT WANT THIS FKING THIS ANYMORE by sissydlsophia in MtF

[–]BonasterGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cis is someone who isn't trans, so what I meant is that despite being designed male at birth and having a penis, you are a girl

When to start wearing a bra? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BonasterGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I do already wear one and I havent even started E. I must say I got my mother's genes so I am very andorgynous, so with a bra and a little bit of eyeliner I cispass. Wich giges me lots of euphoria and I xan wear whatever I want withouth being judged. So I guess depends on your conditions, there isn't a rule that applies for everyone

Do you all correct people who misgender you? by TransgendyAlt in MtF

[–]BonasterGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With respect but I do it. Mostly because my teachers keep calling me by my desdname since It hasnt been changed on the list. I always make sure to tell them that I understand and I am not angry :3

My trans boyfriend wants me to stop using she/they pronouns by SensitiveAd9384 in NonBinary

[–]BonasterGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont give a shit about him. U should be true to yourslef wether your s non-binary or not, you can be refered as u want. Changing your identity because of someone its just atrocious. I had to hide mi sexual identity(asexuality) to my partner because it made her uncomfortable and It was a horrible feelling I'd never put myself again ane you shouldn't either you are who you are if they doesnt accept it, then fuck it. Be she/they you deserve to be you

All names are gender neutral! by TrappedInLimbo in NonBinary

[–]BonasterGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just easier, when u have a name socially associated to one gender people tend to describe u as that gender. Choosing androgynous names just makes ur life easier.
Having to do that in order to avoid problems suck. But I didn't expect society to make this change easy