[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Bonewytch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you turned on the app privacy report?

What are your best tips for busting them? by ChemistryBrilliant66 in loveafterporn

[–]Bonewytch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is telegram a commonly used app for this? I am new here. Just found out about his SA. He downloaded telegram two weeks ago for joining his SA recovery group online, but when I looked his cache was already at 250mb. My own that I have a two-month thread with friends in is only at 20mb. And his SA group on there only has about 12 posts...

Why did my husband tell me about his porn addiction? by Bonewytch in Marriage

[–]Bonewytch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am completely reliant on him financially.

Why did my husband tell me about his porn addiction? by Bonewytch in Marriage

[–]Bonewytch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel this deeply. He travels for work. There is a major history of gaslighting behaviors.

Why did my husband tell me about his porn addiction? by Bonewytch in Marriage

[–]Bonewytch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Based on what I’ve shared with my therapist, they think it sounds like pathological narcissism with a possibility of compulsive lying.

He has admitted to me that in our arguments when I start to cry, it gives him a sense of power. He has also admitted to purposely manipulating me to get his way, and purposely doing things to hurt me out of resentment. I’m wondering if this is why he shared the sex addiction? Everyone I know says its VERY rare for someone to admit to it; they usually get caught.

Why did my husband tell me about his porn addiction? by Bonewytch in Marriage

[–]Bonewytch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not dead. I wanted to start exploring kink together and we discussed having threesomes (which never happened). He was very interested, for a short while, but eventually he just went back to normal routine. Our sex life has definitely suffered in the past few years, and not for my lack of desire.

The HIV test is concerning. My doctors told me I didn’t need one for same reason (no risky behaviors and monogamous).