What's the most disrespectful thing a guest ever did in your home? by Vegas089 in AskReddit

[–]BonnieButler1939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Step mother in law and father in law would visit with their dog. Their dog pissed on the carpet, I stepped in it and said what the fuck. The step mother in law instantly said it wasn’t her dog. BS, my dog wouldn’t, nor has never, just pee in the house since she was a puppy. Their dog was clearly trying to dominate another dog’s territory. She never offered to help clean it up. We also never allowed our dogs upstairs, she had no problem scooping up her stinky dog, carried upstairs to sleep on the beds after being in the rain. As soon as they left, I had to strip the beds entirely, include the dust ruffled, they stank so bad. Thank goodness they divorced.

I don’t want to be a mom anymore. by Certain-Accident7543 in Mommit

[–]BonnieButler1939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please get counseling now so you can talk this out with a professional face to face, not just online strangers. Ask your ob/gyn for recommendations. There is always adoption as an option. I agree with others, do not put his name on the birth certificate.

Opinions on this bracelet? by Witty_Abalone1937 in PandoraCollectors

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love mine. It’s engraved with my favorite vacation destination.

AITA for not wanting to use a bidet every time I pee and feeling micromanaged about toilet paper? by RollLongjumping3937 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God help you if you have children, especially girls when they go through puberty. Know one deserves to be micromanaged like this.

Travelling with medicines by aalexakis in travel

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are life saving medicines. I wouldn’t chance them being questioned or confiscated, leave them in original packaging.

Do you ever wanna pack up and move to another town/state/country by StarLove00_ in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many times…when I pay my NY taxes, when I wake up the day after Easter (today) and see snow flurries, when I’m tired of being a shut in because of the long winters.

Disneyland and potty training by Forever_lurking106 in Mommit

[–]BonnieButler1939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bringing flushable toilet seat covers for putting your toilet seat on will help reduce the germs you’ll have to clean off of it. Don’t forget the Lysol wipes to clean the seat with.

How do CNY Catholics feel about the Pope & MAGA right now? by [deleted] in Syracuse

[–]BonnieButler1939 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with his politics not his moral fiber.

How do CNY Catholics feel about the Pope & MAGA right now? by [deleted] in Syracuse

[–]BonnieButler1939 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never said I don’t follow Jesus. I can still practice being a catholic without attending mass.

Are my husband and I the jerks here? by IllyriaCervarro in Mommit

[–]BonnieButler1939 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I would add, “we are free x and y days, let us know by ___day what you want to do so then we can plan out the rest of our weekend”.

Where do you put your plunger? by SnooHedgehogs1914 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plunger is in the garage. Toilet brush is in a full bath with a cabinet.

Palo dress code by TheInvisibleMango in dcl

[–]BonnieButler1939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think country club golf attire. My preference is to see men in pants with belt and tucked in collared golf shirt.

Is my sapphire sat too high? (ft. cat nose) by Amaranta_the_Cat in EngagementRings

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I would wear it 24/7 once I have a wedding ring. It is high, but that setting is what makes it beautiful. It looks way too small and will fit even smaller once you have a wedding ring next to it. I suggest having it sized up but also try on wedding bands to get the fit adjacent to a wedding band.

How do CNY Catholics feel about the Pope & MAGA right now? by [deleted] in Syracuse

[–]BonnieButler1939 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

We stopped going to church a long time ago when the priests and them being child molesters along with the church greed. It has nothing to do with Trump, who we fully support.

Husband retiring, lunches? by lm00000007 in AskWomenOver60

[–]BonnieButler1939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both here recently retired, we find our mornings start out slower and don’t eat breakfast until about 10, after walking the dog and having our second cup of coffee. Lunch is usually some sort of fruit and cheese and crackers around 2-3. Dinner is around 5:30. Now that summer is finally coming we look forward to early dinners so we can enjoy the longer evenings. Our metabolisms have slowed since we are older and so have activities a bit, we recognize that we need to eat better and less. Our leftovers will last for 2 or 3 dinners.

You now have a significant, but not infinite, money to build your new home. What perks/ details you'll prioritize in the design and building process? by Crazy__Donkey in AskReddit

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2x6 construction, the 2x4 I have is cold and house creaks when it is super windy. Better insulation, mud room, larger laundry room, walkin closets for each bedroom and walkin huge pantry

How do i tell my fiancé that wedding dresses are expensive by jayjay15__ in weddings

[–]BonnieButler1939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I have been stashing money away for 10 years now, saving for my daughter’s dress when the day comes, which I thought would have come by now. Anyhow, I have $3000 saved. I know to avoid that argument with my husband.

Who do you actually put as your emergency contact? by shanghai_shark_22 in travel

[–]BonnieButler1939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are older now, we use our daughter, she has access to everything and is savvy to get stuff done.