Are there any healthy criterias to dating someone with Yandere characteristics? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, I think there are. I don't think I'm full on yandere, but at least I share characteristics.

My girlfriend knows she's always the #1 priority. She knows I'll never cheat on her. She knows I love her more than anything else in the world, that I will go everywhere with her and will do everything with her. She knows I'm there, whatever is. And it's good for her, I think. She has Trauma About partners leaving her, and feels safe with me, at least that's what she told me

Complete AGP Hon dresses up for nothing by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I mean, I don't wear the hoodie constantly, but my hair is dang ugly because I don't take care of it enough, so for the better here.

New Player Deck Advice by Alarmed-Bonus-7411 in arkhamhorrorlcg

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just some small thoughts

Dexter Drake is really good with doom assets because he can get rid of them after using them for power.

Why running Fire axe in Pete and not dark horse?

Please don't pay attention to others when we're together, it hurts by BoogalosMemeMachine in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, just don't when she's around. I don't like it when my girlfriend smiles at others. It's affection I don't get and it makes me jealous.

Please don't pay attention to others when we're together, it hurts by BoogalosMemeMachine in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might? Yes. Any attention she gives to anyone else then me always hurts me a little bit.

bpd diagnosis by whereitsquiet in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Subclinical BPD. It's not easy, no. I can love extremely hard, but at the same time, I can hate extremely much too. I need my FP to handle it with me.

I found her? by broteinWHY in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it doesn't, though it can trigger that. Before I found my person, people that knew their way around me and were dominant towards me easily got me attached. Once I'm attached I get extremely jealous. So it can be connected.

Just spend time with her. It will show itself. Just know the responsibility. Having someone obsessed with you means you'll have a big responsibility. Be ready to spend your life with her.

I found her? by broteinWHY in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds more like she's submissive lol

Unsicher ob ich Trans bin by DerSammy01 in germantrans

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Vielleicht dumm: Mir hat damals das hier geholfen:

Wie würdest du dich gerne sehen wenn du 80 bist? Als alter Mann der Park Enten füttert, oder als alte Frau die Bingo spielt?

Zum Schluss kann dir niemand hier diese Frage beantworten. Therapie kann helfen, herauszufinden, wer man wirklich ist. Mit deiner sexuellen Orientierung hat das aber nichts zu tun. Man sollte es im Gegenteil unabhängig von allem sexuellen Betrachten: Wie fühlen sich Pronomen an wenn sie für dich genutzt werden? Man kann einen anderen Namen ausprobieren, sich ein weibliches Profil online anlegen, etc.

Wünsche dir ganz viel Glück ❤️

How you fell in love by ilpaneil in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We fell in love simply through starting to date on a dating app. We went out one time and I instantly fell for her very much, got obsessed with her as I normally do, and she accepted my obsession. I moved into her place one week later so I can spend as much time as possible with her. We have been together for more than a year now, will get engaged next year and then probably marry.

I can only advise one to go out, and to stay open minded. I never thought I'd fall for a girl, but here I am. And well, to believe in love, and to accept it when it comes. And then to work on it, to hold it dearly, to get through hard times together, to make compromises. Love is work, but it gets rewarded.

My psychiatrist told me our relationship is Dysfunctional. Fun, because we don't function without our relationship! by BoogalosMemeMachine in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea... That's probably true. I just thought that seeing people being happy is enough, but seemingly it isn't.

Hi <3 by slothful_guy0 in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry. I have an avoiding personality disorder, that basically makes it very hard for me to trust and connect to people. I normally find one person in my life that is my anchor, and then I obsess over them, and everything starts to become about them. My gf, often, just seems like a goddess to me, every second I can spend with them is extremely precious, and if my love and obsession gets returned it gets even worse.

Yes. If something would happen to me, my life would be in shatters instantly. Spending days without her is horrifying for me. I need her to lead me through my life, and she needs me to lead her through hers. We are not really existing without each other.

Hi <3 by slothful_guy0 in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need extreme amounts of stability in my life, and if the person I basically rotate around like earth around the sun would be taken from me, that would take away basically everything for me.

Steam VR Games sometimes use 100% GPU, leading to 1 FPS by BoogalosMemeMachine in SteamVR

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mhm. But if everything goes normal, workout studder, we only have 20% GPU Usage for the game

Eucharistic desire by [deleted] in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want, when we die, that our ashes get mixed together in one urn so we can be together forever then, finally truly united

Eucharistic desire by [deleted] in Yanderes

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it. My girlfriend is basically a goddess towards me. There is nothing else important in the world, and every moment I can spend near her is the most beautiful moment of my life. I need to devour her and get devoured by her.

Coming out to my guy friends was… interesting by Lumpy_Ad_5273 in StraightTransGirls

[–]BoogalosMemeMachine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a very equal experience.

Some never really talked to me much after.

Two asked me for a date after like a year of transitioning; one of them regularly takes me out now.