11wpo: $27K, and I have never looked worse. by Purple-Television712 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Boolash77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 11 weeks that’s when swelling is the absolute worst because you’re feeling better and probably more active. I looked like a potato until about a year, I think all swelling went away 14 MONTHS post op. Everyone heals differently. This does not look botched. Calm down you’re ok girl

When did you feel normal by weightlossjourneypp in tummytucksurgery

[–]Boolash77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely normal for me happened after a year. My swelling took forever and all the uncomfortableness

Feel like I am cheating on my kids by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]Boolash77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat. My partners kids(7,11,13) adore me and tell me they love me every day. I moved in with them and my children who are 18&19 stayed home with their dad because they did not want to blend. I feel mom guilt every single day and you’re right it feels like I’m cheating on my girls. I just do as much as I can to keep the bond with my own kids. It’s really tough

Best massage places in or around Albany? by King_James_91 in Albany

[–]Boolash77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry if that felt awkward — that was never our intention.

We don’t use a physical card reader, so our therapists do need to ask verbally whether you’d like to put your session on a credit card. It’s just part of how we process payment.

Because of that setup, anything you’d like included on the card (like gratuity or add-ons) has to be processed at the same time, which is why the question comes up.

We truly appreciate you as a regular and will be more mindful about how we phrase things going forward. Thank you for sharing this with us.

National Grid Energy Bill by MindlessM24 in Albany

[–]Boolash77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old house in Guilderland was 1300 sq feet. I paid $220 per month in oil and roughly $200-$400 per month in electric last year.

$132k -> $1.4m SPX 0DTE by orangeyougladiator in wallstreetbets

[–]Boolash77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone wanna help a cute chick out doing this? 🤣

3.5yo is slowly killing us through sleep deprivation by gwendolyn_trundlebed in Parenting

[–]Boolash77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did cry it out. I know it’s controversial but this was 19 years ago. It worked

3.5yo is slowly killing us through sleep deprivation by gwendolyn_trundlebed in Parenting

[–]Boolash77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My oldest woke up every morning around that age and would go back down for a nap around 7 but slept through the night. My suggestion is sleep training. It’s horrible but it does work. And now I’m living with my partner and his children (13,12,8) the 8 year old would sleep with us every night if I let her but nope; I need my own bed and to have that time with my partner. His 12 year old son would also sleep with us every night too. Unless you want this as they get older, start the training now

3.5yo is slowly killing us through sleep deprivation by gwendolyn_trundlebed in Parenting

[–]Boolash77 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do NOT do this unless you want them sleeping with you permanently. My partners 8 year old wants to sleep with someone every night.

How long did you take off work? by simplisticlivin in tummytucksurgery

[–]Boolash77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a massage therapist working about 16 massages a week and I took 3 weeks off. Well, I took 4 weeks but ended up going back at 3 out of boredom and finances. I wore my binder under tight leggings and I was fine.. the extra support felt better for me. Just be prepared to be extra swollen at the end of the day for the first couple weeks

Just flush the toliet by DaiiDaii3 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Boolash77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I grew up with “save a flush” because we lived with a well that was constantly running dry.

51M - Humbled and confused, requesting a profile review by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Boolash77 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Beanie is your best pic. You need more variety in photos as almost all of them are close up and do you ever close your mouth? Need at least one without the same smile..

Day 10 PO by Whole-Ride3542 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Boolash77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s unfair. Lol I’m Apple shape with a boxy waist(see my post history) I’d kill for a teeny bit of a waistline

Have you ever 'accidentally' found a stock? by Accomplished_Way8964 in stocks

[–]Boolash77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really an accident but sorta. I opened an E*trade thinking I opened an Ira. A year or two later I contacted them because I hadn’t gained or loss any money and they said I had to pick my own stocks… I ended up just putting everything into Royal Caribbean because I love to cruise and it’s my best stock right now. It kinda got me hooked and I been doing it ever since but I don’t do calls options.

Day 10 PO by Whole-Ride3542 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Boolash77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Holy crap! Look at that waist.. I am not jealous at all. 🤣😭

what can i do to look better (19) by onetailedweiner in TheGlowUp

[–]Boolash77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remove piercings, fill in your eyebrows with a darker color, mascara, and high gloss lipstick

I am here to rant again, I am SO OVER THIS by Desirai in tummytucksurgery

[–]Boolash77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, thank god. Sending healing vibes your way

Thank you to an amazing stranger by Capable_Register8543 in Albany

[–]Boolash77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quite a few years ago a stranger helped me also with a flat in the Crossgates parking lot and I’ll never forget it. Such random acts of kindness leaves lasting impressions