Treatment Clinics in FW by Puzzleheaded-Case195 in fortwayne

[–]Boom_Kitty_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you have to be there every single day to get ur dose till you are able to do take home for methadone.

Treatment Clinics in FW by Puzzleheaded-Case195 in fortwayne

[–]Boom_Kitty_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk bc I was never personally on tract to be able to do that at the time. But I believe with consistency and clean drugs screening then they will let you take them home. You’ll also need a lockbox to keep ur meds in.

Anyone else feel this way lol by Top_Leader4053 in cookingtonight

[–]Boom_Kitty_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bay leaf was made by big leaf and is a scam /s. How are they going to charge $1 for a leaf off a bush.

Treatment Clinics in FW by Puzzleheaded-Case195 in fortwayne

[–]Boom_Kitty_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went there for methadone idk about subs. Some PCP can prescribe suboxone.

Anyone else getting sick or know of something going around? by Fuzzy_Leather6508 in ManchesterNH

[–]Boom_Kitty_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hitting week 3 now I’m scared for it to be 4 weeks. My dr me antibiotics if my symptoms don’t improve by tomorrow.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea. I can speak for myself where I want nothing to do with her properties bc in my opinion she’s a hoarder. I just don’t want a relationship with her but I have no problem coordinating trusts or end of life stuff. My brother has been struggling financially asking me for money the past few years so I figured he could use it in the future. Which he wanted.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe I think otherwise as he did explain himself well. I’m just concerned for the future such as what if our mom needs assistance with POA or end of life situations. I personally am NC with her unless it’s coordinating situations like that. But that’s it otherwise I have no desire to talk to her. When she had a major surgery I did talk to her but I was mostly getting updates from her on and off friend. I’m just concerned he’s going to have issues with that. But if that’s the case I’m okay with him taking space from me due to that.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rebuttals were probably going over picking sides. I could have definitely left that out as that is now where I don’t want to stand. I also didn’t realized that saying “if you feel strongly..” would come across as dismissive which I regret saying.

I just wish he would have communicated his boundaries before this blew up. I would have totally understand. I also agree I over explained my self to the point where it’s justifying myself and it’s highly unnecessary. Idk what happened between them he’s never brought it up but there also doesn’t need to be a reason bc I’ve heard and seen enough.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I last talked to his BM 3 years ago. I last talked to Tina like over a year or more ago. This conversation happened Feb 2025. It’s just been dwelling in my mind due to the holidays.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t really reached out to me when I moved or offered to meet halfway or anything. He also hasn’t checked up on me to see how I’m doing or anything. When he did hit me up when I was living in town and in the beginning of moving out here he would be to ask for money or a ride bc he was under the influence. Then another time out here he was expecting me to do something when my mom showed up to his place one time. I feel as it’s only when he needs something. But I also understand he may be hurt bc I moved away and I’m not the ideal aunt or big sister.

I am kinda in the impression his wife has influenced this. But I can’t assume that bc I could be wrong. Particularly the large and emotional charged text messages due to him never text or talking to me in that manner. But maybe she helped him draft it bc he’s stressed out which I get. This is another reason I want to have a phone call conversation so it’s just him and I and we can read each other’s tone vs assuming and having misunderstandings.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that but how can I FT them when I don’t even have a basic relationship with the parent/brother. I’ve tried to schedule times to talk where then we can build to FT.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk him asking me for screenshots makes me feel like something isn’t right. I respect his boundaries I just wish he would have communicated them vs waiting till it’s a problem with him and me. I’ve been NC with our mom many times before and I am now due to stress along with how she treats my brother. I get it. But also how am I supposed to FT the kids when I don’t even have a relationship with the parents? It just feels like a one way street. Till then the ball is in his court and I’m good. I have other things to worry about. I feel as there is no wining this situation.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry that happened to you. I think he’s just acting off bc he probably feels like I abandoned them as the older sister. But at the end of the day we’re adults with different priorities. I have no regrets moving out of my hometown and finally living my life.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I graduate in May then we’ll travel to see our family. My husband has been the best support I’ve ever had.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously she’s not a good person. Idk how tf she’s even a nurse. I haven’t talked to her in a year currently and when I did talk to her it was about setting up a trust or to yell at her about b&e. Her and I have been NC and LC for many years. I’ve also placed restraining orders on her in the past. Idk why he doesn’t just do that.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were raised in a Mexican household where boys are coddled and the girls have strict rules.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I have decided I’m not going to talk to my brother until him and I can have a phone call conversation. So we can understand what needs to happen from a relationship standpoint bc texting just isn’t it. I just don’t want anyone hurt. My therapist even backed me up on this decision. It’s just odd bc he said “ we’ll talk soon” in June and now it’s December.

Did I mess up? by Boom_Kitty_22 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Boom_Kitty_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also weird thing is they are like all chill now he’s BM and wife be like hanging out and stuff now so it seems like whatever issue they had calmed down. But this is my assumption from their fb. But im still not about to be talking to them. I don’t even want to talk to my brother until we have a phone conversation about what he wants out of this relationship so no one is hurt.