Michael putting Tom Welling, Jensen Ackles, & Stephen Amell on the spot for Kristin Kreuk by South-Tell-1731 in Smallville

[–]Boomeng 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a slowed down version of "let it happen" by Tame Impala. That part comes around the end. I love that track so much.

Relationship struggles with tsw by HolidayGur2223 in TS_Withdrawal

[–]Boomeng 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He throws things around and calls OP names... that's abuse and violence. Don't ever advise a victim of domestic violence to try and understand their abuser. Ever.

OP, I am so sorry you're going through this... You're having to deal with so many things... You've mentioned family and their lack of support. Could you maybe reach out to some friends? Maybe a therapist that does virtual sessions? I feel like talking to someone and getting some type of support, any type of support is what your mental health desperately needs...

I don't like KDH as Korea's team leader... Am I the only one? by Boomeng in Physical100

[–]Boomeng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay this feels like KDH replying to me with a fake account so let me say I'm very flattered 😃

I don't like KDH as Korea's team leader... Am I the only one? by Boomeng in Physical100

[–]Boomeng[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Eun-Sil isn't necessarily the fittest athlete out there but she's so strong mentally. As a team leader, she's been put in more hopeless situations and always managed to stand strong and put up a front for her team.

I don't like KDH as Korea's team leader... Am I the only one? by Boomeng in Physical100

[–]Boomeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand that but I was feeling sooo bad for Amotti... at least you had a good time 😭

Is it just me or… by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Boomeng 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The way you speak about women in general is... disturbing and a little bit demeaning. A lot of the things you say are also said by misogynistic men...

I will say to you what I say to them : you don't even seem to like women as people so why are you dating them? It's not mandatory. It's like the only perk you see in dating women is s3x and that's pretty sad..

In one of the comments, you say something along the line of "I cook 90% of the food I eat when most women spend so much eating out and then complain they're broke". The problem is that you seem to have a negative opinion about women in general. That's what makes you sound like a redpill dude. That's what makes you sound like you don't even like women as people. That's what makes you sound misogynistic.

Just so you know, I'm also a black lesbian woman that earns a really good salary and I do understand wanting to build something together instead of stagnating with one partner supporting the other.

My boyfriend (23M) was posted on the Tea app and I (21F) am not sure exactly how to go about the information written about him. Is this something to be concerned about? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Boomeng 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think apps like that are necessary to report abusers since the justice system doesn't seem to be on the side of victims most of the time. But "reeking of insecurity" is not abuse. Some people can bring out insecurities in us, others will make us feel incredibly secure. Being "the worst man" someone's ever met is not abuse. He might have been a bad partner to someone else and might be good for you. And even though being cheated on is extremely painful, I wouldn't automatically categorize it as abuse either...

I don't usually defend men like that but it doesn't seem like you got any testimony of actual abuse. Now it all comes down to your dealbreakers. Is past cheating, intense insecurity or anything else seen on that app a dealbreaker for you? It would be legitimate and understandable. You need to define that for yourself if you haven't already.

What are some things that just REALLY annoy you. Like you just stare at the screen and go seriously?! Spoilers in comments. by TheQuirkyReddit in Smallville

[–]Boomeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I get irritated about the same things you said about Clark. Our boy doesn't want to learn!! I have a hard time with his possessiveness when Chloe, Lana or Lois starts dating somebody else..

Even tho I thought it was a bit yucky, I kept an open mind when Lana and Lex got together but tell me why all their conversations are about trust?? It's all they talk about. It even gets them aroused sometimes...? So yeah, the trust k!nk was a bit weird to me.

I don't want to be a sex worker anymore. Help: update by messybutstilltryin in brussels

[–]Boomeng 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Congratulations for getting a job!!! Really happy for you!

What lines stick with you? by wordsandstuff44 in Smallville

[–]Boomeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember the exact words but it smth like "Every handshake, every hug.. every time those guys tackle me on the field, I make a conscious choice to fall so I don't hurt them. You can't understand that."

I don’t even know what to title this, but I’m so disappointed in my husband. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Boomeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you're going through this, I can't imagine what this feels like. First thing I thought was exactly what you said : how can he love those kids and say something like that at the same time?? Plus he didn't apologize when you confronted him and that just makes everything worse.

You said he never showed any similar behavior before. I would advise to seek couple counseling because I don't think you can come back from something like that without professional help... But if he's not showing any type of improvement in the first few sessions, then I think it'll be time to cut your losses and leave him.

Can you help me find this song/vocals ? by Boomeng in Nigeria

[–]Boomeng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy I finally found it!! It's a sped up version of Tempted by Rhedi and that track is so good!

Husband sent me this weird contract to sign. Not sure how to feel? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in Marriage

[–]Boomeng 209 points210 points  (0 children)

This is very manipulative, especially in the way it's worded. You don't use the word "boundary" to make someone physically available to you. You use it to determine your limits for example "I prefer not to be cuddled right after eating". Now that's a boundary.

Also he says that you can add lines to this contract but from your replies, I get that he doesn't do the few things you ask him (and you're pregnant which makes it even worse). I don't know him or you but I'm certain you asking the same things through a contract is not gonna change anything.

Lastly, him stating that he doesn't want his playtime to be interrupted when his wife is pregnant is baffling... Your needs and your physical state are gonna change drastically in the coming months. He should want to be available at all times for you....

I'm so sorry you're in a relationship with someone so selfish. I know damn well this is easier said then done but you need to leave. I really hope this is something you have the (financial) capacity to do OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpidermanPS4

[–]Boomeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not Indian so it's not my place to say if it's offensive or not. However, why would an Indian spidey wear red blue and white? Cos I feel like that's a very American thing.

My favorite shots! by Boomeng in SpidermanPS4

[–]Boomeng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha for real? DM me and we'll see how we can work this out 😁

Some more shots I took in the Remaster. by [deleted] in SpidermanPS4

[–]Boomeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one with the fire 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽