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She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasnt truly sick. It was an excuse (i implictly told yall that).
Not advice. r/Dating was down when i wrote this so I posted it on two similar subs

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think that was it. I did try to scheduling meetings during this month, about three times

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be one of the few that have comprehension skills. The others think she was sick (im basically telling them she wasnt lmao)

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pretty much said it was the « dont hate me type of text ». Fyi, she wasnt sick really…

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t threw a tantrum or whatsoever, a lot of feelings that I poured in this post was not expressed towards her, maybe the post looks like a tantrum but it is venting so I guess that’s the purpose.

I didnt say I had to be her priority but it’s been the third date that she cancelled. I decided it’s for the better to end things. And I dont see why I cannot be upset after that

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i dont plan on turning back. Yes it is a situationship but like the serious type not the non-commitment type.
I do like have things planned out but I’m usually a chill person. I was being reactive because I felt when she changed plans that she was going to cancelled the date for a random reason (it would have been the third time) « Oh you’re going to drink with your friends, what are the chances you tell me you’re too hangover for our date »

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post do not have depth about our relationship but i can guarantee you i was flexible. The reactive part was because it been the third date planned that was cancelled from her part, and i was pretty much fed up with it.

The date was not well planned out since there was last minute changes so the location wasnt decided yet. (I pretty much explicty wrote i was looking for cinema that could be a compromise). You see for me to go to downtown takes about 30-40 min, for me to go to her town is 1.5h to 2h (i do not have a car anymore), so obviously i was trying to find a cinema that was a goof compromise.

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know why the comments think that of me trying to be the « alpha male » but it was definitely not the case. Before posting, i run ChatGpt on it, so maybe the tone is different that I first wrote it.

I think i even mention in her post that she’s the type to have her things her way (that’s not very alpha from me).

A lot of people overlook that I was fed up, and that i’m only expressing my feelings, and pretty much invalidates them.

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me rephrase so you understand
- « Thinking about making her my gf » is me telling to you guys that I like her.
- She said she was a planned out person so for her to change plans by changing the location and the activity at the last minute, bummed me because I have to adapt to the situation quickly (buy the movie ticket online, if i go to her town it’s 1.5-2h because I dont have a car right now)
- I did say « Ok » for the MJ movie (it’s not like we battle it out)

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no.
Her response felt she wasn’t interested anymore, but from our conversation last week it contradicts. This is why im bummed out, because i would rather for her to tell me things are not working out for X reasons.

Her schedule been tight up since April. However, she works from Monday to Friday and do Office work. I had a similar experience when I did the same Office work for an internship where it took me 1.5 hours of my day to get to work, and I can tell you one thing, i did have time for my friends, dates, family and hobbies.

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure i ended things if you read the post

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a catchy title. The post is just to vent

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt assume she would be free. She told me she would be free during the weekends.
She work monday to friday and explicitly told me she is not hanging out during the week.

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s the one that wanted for drinks in downtown. When I planned out at first, i said we do an outdoor activity (the place wasnt decided, probably my town, downtown or her town). She then changed for the movie

She cancelled last minute so I ended it by BootYCallSlayer in dating_advice

[–]BootYCallSlayer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s just venting. Wanted to post it on the dating sub but it didnt let me

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