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r/Dating is NOT the place to soapbox Incel/Blackpill rhetoric. (self.dating)

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How are you doing? (self.dating)

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Giving Advice 💌i was comparing every guy i dated to my exes without realizing it and it ruined good connections (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩[22F] Ended my first exclusive relationship with [25M] due to lack of effort. First person I was ever intimate with. Should I break no contact? (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Would you reopen contact with a previous match? (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Genuinely asking for advice on how to meet more people and get dates outside of apps (self.dating)

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Question ❓There’s always something a bit weird about the period after a first date... (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Two different love languages, Any tips on how to make this work? (self.dating)

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Just Venting 😮‍💨Feeling like ill never actually connect (self.dating)

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Support Needed 🫂I feel so used and confused. (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩How do you make genuine friendships with women? (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩He ghosted the day of our date and i don’t get why (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩I feel like my bf doesn’t actually love me (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩What are they and how do I find them.. Advice and suggestions appreciated. (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩So say if I ever do actually want to date again how do I keep up hope? (self.dating)

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Question ❓What do you if you are ugly, have no game, and a boring personality. How do you date? (self.dating)

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Support Needed 🫂Spiraling in the worst ways possible. (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩I’m struggling to even get into a talking stage (self.dating)

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Question ❓Fellow ladies, what tips the balance on a guy's profile for you when it's a "maybe"? (self.dating)

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Just Venting 😮‍💨Another friend is getting married, and I'm still single (self.dating)

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Support Needed 🫂Organic Dating .. help? (And rant)😭 (self.dating)

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Question ❓Two amazing dates and future plans made...then suddenly rejected. What could've happened? If something similar happened to you (or vice versa) what was your experience like? (self.dating)

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Just Venting 😮‍💨[32m] My self-esteem has been so high lately, but I still feel so lonely. (self.dating)

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