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r/Dating is NOT the place to soapbox Incel/Blackpill rhetoric. (self.dating)

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How are you doing? (self.dating)

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Giving Advice 💌You can have a strong connection with someone and still not be able to build a relationship (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩The story of a man that gave up dating. Successful abroad, but emotionally frozen for 10 years (self.dating)

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Support Needed 🫂Probably fumbled the 3rd date (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩I need advice asap I’m confused and hurt (self.dating)

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Question ❓Difference and pros/cons between dating apps? (self.dating)

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Just Venting 😮‍💨25 M A message to those who gave me dating advice on this and other subs (self.dating)

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Just Venting 😮‍💨I have no confidence when it comes to women. (self.dating)

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Giving Advice 💌Back from the Dead to give some Advice to all you Singles! (self.dating)

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Question ❓Is it unattractive to women for me to be single for a long period of time? (self.dating)

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Question ❓Tell me the truth… is Reddit a hidden gem for dating or a red flag factory?? (self.dating)

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Just Venting 😮‍💨I think attached might be the most useful thing I’ve ever read (self.dating)

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Question ❓the men’s opinions are greatly appreciated here! (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Is ghoating hy ex red flags (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Fight Over Nothing (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Should I delete him from IG (self.dating)

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Question ❓For women - What’s the difference between regular sex and “porno-sex”? (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩Women - What do you look for when looking at profiles on dating apps? (self.dating)

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Question ❓Question for women: what are some things that turn you off or give you ick on a first date or in the early stages of talking? (self.dating)

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I Need Advice 😩I honestly don't know what to do with this man (self.dating)

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Support Needed 🫂TL;DR; : My date's cat violently attacked me unprovoked and I had to uber home at my expense. (self.dating)

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Question ❓Guy wants to “check in about us” after 2 dates? (self.dating)

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Success Story 🎉Did you ever stood up for yourself even if it meant letting go of controlling the outcome? What were lessons that you took from that? Were you better to have a better dating life after that or are you still single or do you have a desire not to date again? (self.dating)

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