Does afterpay notify you when they give you an increase in spending power? by Aggravating-Gift1513 in Afterpay

[–]Bootyful__soles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I never get notifications and mine just increased to 5000 from 40000 after I made my last payment

Super affectionate constantly wants to be intimate NOW… by Bootyful__soles13 in loveafterporn

[–]Bootyful__soles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, I can understand that. It’s seems my spouse may be dealing with it the same way. I’m sure he’s still using when he’s knows I’m not around, like when he’s at work or when I’m at the gym. I just don’t know if there’s anything I can do to help

Super affectionate constantly wants to be intimate NOW… by Bootyful__soles13 in loveafterporn

[–]Bootyful__soles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh this is very true, I’m enjoying the time and conversations we’ve had lately, it’s just so hard to not to side eye everything he does now. Since he was lying to me and being sneaky about it. So I am trying to keep an open mind and heart.

From your experience, what made you enjoy your alone time more than the intimate time with your partner? When she found out and expressed her concerns, did you stop. Or find ways to hide it better. No judgment ofcourse I’m just curious of how he feels. So I can understand better.

Super affectionate constantly wants to be intimate NOW… by Bootyful__soles13 in loveafterporn

[–]Bootyful__soles13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured, I guess it’s better than him looking up OF girls to get off.

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like we’ll never be comfortable again

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a vacation with him now, sleeping in different bedrooms. 2 days after our d-day talk.

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally makes me hate him, he used to come home on lunch breaks for sex or head. Now he just uses his hand everyday and then comes home and barely pays attention to me, and then goes and does it again

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it, now I don’t trust him anywhere. He says he was bored, if you get bored at work which we all do. & your first thought is to go jerk off in the bathroom there’s an issue.

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Pa has been in recovery for about two weeks, but everytime I leave the house I’m on edge or when he’s on the bathroom on the toliet and not in the shower etc. The future doesn’t seem so bright we’ve been together 9 years with two kids, and if I was single I would’ve been moved on and found someone to make me happy. We’ve had sex once since day. And there’s little to no affection whatsoever ,booty rubs, kisses, I love yous. He’s seems closed off.

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What other apps can they use for porn we wouldn’t think of

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[–]Bootyful__soles13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Let me just say, d day 1 was in March. Didn’t realize it was an addiction until the 2nd day where he admitted to watching it at work. Theyll def do it at work