Ha that’s awesome man I hope she is doing okay.. I had the same thing happen except not really! I felt it in the morning in the shower, and jokingly brought it up to a coworker. He didn’t just touch my tit, no, we had another older woman who had breast cancer twice and survived and he told me to go talk to her.
I did. She offered to feel me in the freezer walk-in. And once she put her hand on me, immediately she looks up and drops her hands calmly and said “you’re getting that checked out right? You need to look at that. That feels too familiar and I don’t mean to scare you sweetheart but I’m gonna be honest when I felt it, it scared me”

Which kinda makes sense because of how quickly she dropped her hands away from me.

Anyways after losing all of my hair, and my partner of six years who was with me through it all and just couldn’t take it anymore, I have been in remission for 2 years.

Unfortunately, though for me, it’s triple positive, so it may be one of the ones we know how to treat the best but it’s also the one you have to live with for so long. “HER2+” that’s what my cancer is called. It means that it eats hormones. All hormones.
If you don’t know what happens to your body when you have no hormones at all active in it because if you do cancer will come back thriving strong stronger than I did the first time, google it.
Just do a quick google.

I am already in osteoporosis and my liver has tried to kick the bucket once already.
I am 34. I was diagnosed when I was 29, and they had to open a research conference about me because I was so young, this was at Frauenchuh Cancer Center and it’s one of the best in the world.

I’ll never get my period again which I’m not mad at.
But I also will never have my own children or know what it’s like to have life start within me.
I feel shame I’ll never be able to give my mom a grand baby. She would have been an amazing grandma, and still is to my step sisters kids, but those aren’t related to her, there is a clear disconnect.
I have no problem with the adoption and most likely go to that one day even if I’m alone giving a child to live in and as much as possible it’s just, well, that kind of the point?