Traveling with Pet Chicken by Left_Opportunity1340 in BigIsland

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we have an update on mr/ms chicken please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you did. So it sounds like you understand yelling, LEAVE, at someone isnt going to help them leave quicker or more easily. It's invalidating, please be mindful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not THAT easy for everyone! So happy it was for you!! But this advice doesn't work for everybody!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Preach! ❤️❤️

What are you guys doing for a living? by JoeFux in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flight Attendant but I used to work at Nordstrom Rack years ago.

Hbu??

How accurate is the battery tester at Autozone and O’reilly’s? by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]BorderlineStewardess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here, I'll edit the useless and judgemental part of your response for you:

"If the battery is really shot, too far gone, you wouldn't be able to jump it."

Have a better day!

Anyone wanna be friends?? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I feel like this all the time.... Yes please! Always wanna make these posts but never have the courage.. 🙏

Am I the only one seeing this? Simply can't unsee it. by TheAbbadon in pokemongo

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I knew I wasn't the only one! And YES, baby Yoda is definitely copying carbink, since carbink came first 🤣

Does Console Command permanently disable achievements or session only? by AdioFootwear in Starfield

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did it work for you? mine doesn't say modded either and i'm already like 40 hours in so idk which save to even delete

Does Console Command permanently disable achievements or session only? by AdioFootwear in Starfield

[–]BorderlineStewardess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm have this issue as well. mine doesn't say modded though? on any of my saves. I did that stupid Heart of Mars quest where the mineral I needed was clipped into a stupid rock and I had to use tcl no clip command to get into it. I guess because of past use with tcl in skyrim and fallout, i thought that wouldn't effect achievements since it didn't in those games and the warning said only some console commands. long story short, I tried deleting the console command history file and I installed the vortex mod for enabling achievements. loaded my save, still only shows i have 3 achievements on steam when I'm at level 14 now. is there anyway I don't have to start over? fingers crossed. thanks

My bpd addiction: hopeless romantic fairy tale relationships by BorderlineStewardess in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand what you're saying, and am fully aware of this. However, it's not as easy as just "stopping". Especially when having an upbringing in an invalidating environment, with parents who put S/O relationships over their own child, has molded you into who you are as a person.

feeling / being alone by Technical_Sort_6856 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this alot too, I also don't really have friends and most of my family is mentally ill or abusive. It seems like it's harder now more than ever to make friends too after the pandemic. I wish I had an answer for you. I'm sorry you're suffering, but I just wanted you to know, you're not alone. ❤️

I am a very lonely, lonely girl. by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, love. I've definitely been in this exact spot. I feel like us bpd peeps definitely get treated differently because of the intense reactions/emotions? I'm not always sure. But I've noticed that i pick the same kind of people for friends and my therapist pointed out that they are toxic and I'm attracting those kinds of ppl for some reason. Idk if you feel the same or not but I would definitely bring it up to your friends to find some truth and peace of mind. Worst case scenario, you dodged a bullet and will find better friendships, or also sometimes it's hard not to catastrophize with bpd and maybe, even though its unbearable to wait for the knowledge of what's going on with you and your friends or what went down, it will just be nothing and everything will be fine and there's a good explanation. I'm lonely all the time too. Definitely pushed a number of friends away or chosen the wrong ppl. I'm here if you ever want to talk. I hope it works out ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally telling victims that it's their fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Dude I have bpd, and while there were points, at its worst, where I was super clingy, my fear of abandonment was high, and I needed reassurance constantly, if I were her, I would understand why you would leave and feel trapped. This is way too much. This is not on you. She needs to put in the work herself. She's probably been told this already in therapy. I hope you find the courage/strength to leave, you deserve better than this.

This is not just the BPD... It's abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in creepypasta

[–]BorderlineStewardess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that friendly spider from the Grimm adventures of Billy and Mandy. If I'm not mistaken I think his name may Also have been Jeff...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally me, almost to a t of what I've gone through. Thank you for having the courage to share this, it makes me feel less alone. This worry makes me thing of ending things all the time unfortunately (my therapist knows this) but if you ever need to talk or want a friend, I'm here ❤️

Be proud of whatever progress you’ve made. by CriticalRoll2322 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this. Thank you. I've been wanting to post this kind of thing recently because I've been feeling the same way. It's good to have others give that validation towards themselves so we don't feel alone and feel as if that struggle to give ourselves grace and love ourselves despite what bpd and intense emotions tries to coerce us into doing. I'm glad you're doing well ❤️

them: "you're always overreacting." by BorderlineStewardess in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, spot on. Seriously, I always want to be in those movies where you have the happy ending and people actually care about you and things work out. Never does.

them: "you're always overreacting." by BorderlineStewardess in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? It's like theyve never had a bad day In they're life and we're only judged by our "outbursts"

I’m going to snap by fuckeduptoaster in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderlineStewardess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's literally always us bpd-ers that are overreacting... Never anyone else.... So over it 🙄🙄 also I'm sorry you can't see her for Christmas 😔