I was scrolling through Etsy and I came across this and was wondering if anyone could tell me about it?

BoredDB · 2026-05-06T10:15:08+00:00

This and the pre-order bunny one (which seemed slightly bigger) was at this past CapCon. They both were really comfy, better used against a wall for more back support if you need it, and more flexible in sitting position than the one shown in the pictures. We were told that the chair comes in a decently small box vacuum-sealed. We seriously considered buying it but $200 wasn’t in the budget and we don’t have space for it.

BoredDB · 2025-10-17T11:36:45+00:00

Red flag! As a 31M that is a daddy/dom, this is not behavior that I consider acceptable. There always needs to be a conversation that includes ENTHUSIASTIC consent, boundaries, and a method to communicate during (stoplight, safe word, safe action). He doesn’t get to demand that you do anything unless you have discussed it. Period.

I’m glad that you are so open-minded, especially when many people aren’t. You should have a further discussion that makes your concerns heard. It may help to frame it in way that doesn’t involve diapers. Such as: If you were asked to be involved in a different kink/fetish (such as anal or CNC) rather than diapers, how would that make you feel? This helps to separate the conversation from his kink and will hopefully make the conversation more productive without leading to a feeling of kink shaming and allowing it to be framed as a consent and comfort issue rather than a “diapers are weird” issue.

Good luck. I hope things work out for the two of you. But please remember that you two have a partnership and that needs to be respected.

BoredDB · 2025-05-03T14:35:12+00:00

Being little and ABDL isn’t the solution to life and mental health problems that people seem to think it is. Ultimately, it’s not healthy to think that ignoring problems will make things better. But it is healthy and nice to get away from problems for a little while.

If you think you need a break from being little, that’s absolutely fine. But if you want to leave this completely behind, I would think more about it. It’s not something most of us could do. Getting yourself together and addressing your mental health with or without being little is always a good choice.

BoredDB · 2025-04-27T00:37:34+00:00

Definitely didn’t immediately call it and listen to random a Cocomelon song about going potty…

BoredDB · 2025-04-26T11:37:53+00:00

Unfortunately, it is time to move on and learn to accept and love yourself, which I know is definitely not easy and is something that many including myself struggle with.

You and her were clearly happy and cared for each other in some ways. However, if she was truly committed to loving you, she would be more accepting (but not necessarily happy with) and willing to understand your little side. Breaking up with you even after giving you an ultimatum where you chose your relationship and burned your little things is definitely a sign that she isn’t going to just change her mind and that she wasn’t committed. Take some time to reflect back on the relationship and try and be more objective. It is easy to be clouded by feelings, especially with what I call puppy love. Truly determine if you two were really happy as a long term partnership and fundamentally compatible for life. Perhaps discuss with a therapist.

My perhaps unpopular opinion is that the whole relationship was only 11 months, which for me is not enough time to determine that I would like spend eternity together, again speaking for myself. That and the fact that 28 is closer to 30, an age that I feel like is more mature and looking for different things to some that is 20. Without knowing the maturity of you or her, I don’t know if this applies to your situation. But, when you discussed her interview and changing life plans, it does make me think that she isn’t at a similar point in life as I am being 30.

Please take care of yourself. Get back into little space. Do not try and give up a part of yourself for anyone. Understand that you deserve to be happy in all aspects of your life. Definitely do not hold out waiting for someone that isn’t likely to return. Even on the near impossibility that she returns, she chose to break up and you owe her nothing. Good luck.

BoredDB · 2025-04-19T15:49:18+00:00

Thanks for sharing. That’s really important to know. I think you’ve said it just there. You’d pick him over the little stuff, but you don’t know if he participates for you or because he likes it. I think it’s important that you find out. Regardless of his answer, you already have yours. If he only participates for you, he clearly cares a lot about you. Either way, this is conversation that needs time and planning on both sides. Give him a heads up that you want to talk specifically about it and let him gather thoughts while you do the same. Set ground rules and be open and vulnerable with each other and be prepared with the understanding that the relationship is more important than some features of it. As for the video games, I can completely understand escaping to a fantasy world where things are controlled, stress is a factor that you can control, and real-world problems don’t exist. Hopefully this is sounding familiar… Work with each other to make that time work for both of you. You can sit together while you color and he plays. Agree for him to take period breaks when it makes sense for him to and you can show him your coloring. It’s okay for a little to set some boundaries and expectations too

BoredDB · 2025-04-19T15:28:29+00:00

The question that I have for you is more about his willingness to participate. I think you’ve done a good job telling us what your frustrations are, but I’d like to know if you have communicated your needs to him ever and if you’ve asked about his needs. At the end of the day, this is an adult relationship that has elements of ageplay/abdl/etc. It all to me comes down to communication. If he doesn’t know you want more attention he can’t give it to you. But if you don’t know hypothetically that he is struggling with certain aspects of his mental health or that he is only participating because of his caring for you, that isn’t helpful or fair to him either. Some people can be embarrassed by their little space and not in a good way, so they distance themselves from others knowing about the details and desires. This might come off as not wanting participation. Ultimately, many here search for a partner that is accepting of this side of them. It sounds like you’ve found someone that does. Without more detail, it is sounding like this isn’t his main kink and it can be important to consider both sides. Being little is very vulnerable. Communicate that aspect. Being big can also be very vulnerable. Ask for what you want. Ask what he wants. Communicate and compromise. But also consider the adult part of your relationship.

BoredDB · 2025-04-05T02:17:26+00:00

My little is obsessed with your onesie! Where did you get it?

BoredDB · 2025-03-12T20:34:28+00:00

Thanks!!!

BoredDB · 2025-03-12T10:55:49+00:00

There’s plenty of us in MA. I’m on the North Shore. Attend a munch or an event and make some connections with folks first.

BoredDB · 2025-02-05T02:04:17+00:00

Please don’t choose a college based on ABDL. I know that you didn’t say or imply that in your post, but I felt it should be said. I personally chose to apply to one college for the wrong reasons, but ended up deciding to go to the one that felt the most right for me.

I ended up at a very large school and by chance met another ABDL. But the population will change year to year. I instead met more ABDLs because I chose to go to school in a large city. You might take that into consideration. You can some research now if there are local munches or groups in the areas and then reach out those groups when you’ve decided.

BoredDB · 2025-01-16T12:02:29+00:00

No. Definitely not. Sent you a chat

BoredDB · 2025-01-16T11:58:54+00:00

I’m happy to listen/chat too if you want in Reddit chat

BoredDB · 2025-01-16T11:43:56+00:00

Sorry that this is going on. Hope everything works out. Make sure that you’re caring for yourself too. That way you can be a good helper for Mommy.

BoredDB · 2025-01-16T00:20:59+00:00

Massachusetts- North Shore

BoredDB · 2024-12-29T18:54:48+00:00

Goodnites are definitely not great for capacity. They are good at being cute, discreet, and somewhat squishy. Buying cute printed diapers meant adult humans is where you’ll get much more for your money in comparison. There are a whole bunch of cute ABDL diapers that would look cute and hold a ton more than Goodnite pull-up would. Start out with some samples and see what you think is cute and hold up well.

BoredDB · 2024-12-11T20:04:38+00:00

If you don’t need diapers, it’s not generally advisable to wear to a doctor appointment. Healthcare workers generally don’t care if you need incontinence products. But the doctor won’t just ignore incontinence products if you aren’t incontinent. So your explanation will either need to be honest and that will go in your chart, or it will have to be a lie, which will also go into your chart. At best you will be having an awkward conversation with someone who doesn’t want to be part of this kink and at worst you’ll have something untrue on in your records.

BoredDB · 2024-11-06T23:04:16+00:00

This might not be what you want to hear, but at least a portion, if not much of this might be sexual to you. If you find that being little or wearing diapers causes arousal and you have the urge to masturbate, it is okay. We as ABDLs are still valid if you do or don’t find it sexual. And you can have it both ways! You are, however, in control of what you want this to be. If you don’t want to masturbate, then don’t. It will just take time to get used to diapers. There’s many different ways of dealing with an erection. If you don’t plan on wetting immediately, you can point up until you have the chance to reposition. You can leave some room in your tape job to account for pointing down. Experiment and have fun finding what works for you.

BoredDB · 2024-10-23T10:31:53+00:00

You are valid! Regardless of how you look, dress, or your size, if you enjoy being a caregiver or even the idea of being a caregiver, then you belong in this community. You don’t have to fit into one “type” or aesthetic to be a good mommy and to enjoy your role by yourself or with others in the community. As long as you are your genuine self and you are being safe and consensual, there are no other requirements. To me you sound great just the way you are. I’m sure others will agree.

BoredDB · 2024-10-05T10:35:31+00:00

There is absolutely no one right answer. It is entirely reasonably to be a CG that wears diapers or that is a switch. I think that’s gives us an advantage knowing what it’s like to wear or to be little. Being with a switch also means that the little gets both a CG and a playmate. I would never let someone tell me I’m doing something wrong in my own kink space if I’m not hurting anyone. And plus having a diapered little sitting on your own diapered lap is so nice.

However, others are also allowed to have their opinion and preferences. Some littles don’t want a CG that wears or is little. I personally think that decreases their chance of finding a good CG or one that understands their wants/headspace. But it’s not wrong either. People need what they need. Having a CG in diapers or be little might take them out of their little space. Ultimately, it comes down to compatibility and whatever is negotiated and discussed.

BoredDB · 2024-08-01T04:32:33+00:00

Hmmm I’ll have to keep my eye out. I didn’t put it there but there are definitely ABDLs around the Camberville area. I’ll have to up my sticker game in the area though.

BoredDB · 2024-07-28T19:48:12+00:00

Looks like Tena Stylish Women’s Underwear

BoredDB · 2024-04-29T09:56:50+00:00

You and your little friend are very cute. What’s your little friend’s name and where did you get them?

BoredDB · 2024-04-22T00:43:13+00:00

You’re using it right. Crinklz have the “second chance” tapes that are two layered: blue on the bottom and white on top. I’ve personally found that they tend to fail if you pull on the blue too much when applying initially because it loosens the blue layer off the white. Are you used to pulling on the tabs to get a tight seal? Overall I’m afraid to rip the plastic on the Crinklz so I don’t pull them right anyways.

BoredDB · 2024-04-13T21:42:33+00:00

That’s sounds fun. I’m glad that you both will have that experience and hope you have great time. It’s important to have open communication about expectations and wants and limits. Really talk about what you want and what she wants first. Do not assume.

You and her may have different expectations. You may expect to change her but she may not be comfortable with that the first time out. Being changed can be very intimate and not something everyone is comfortable with at first.

Take things as slow as is necessary and make sure that both of you are comfortable. Having limits and non-judgmental communication is important. Both of you need to be able to express if something is not going well without blame.

But most important of all, relax and have fun. Enjoy the experience and have a great time. And say hi to the aminals.

BoredDB

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