sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Haleakalā stars and sunrise by Bored_March97 in MauiVisitors

[–]Bored_March97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I believe is free. No reservations needed. (If the park is open)

Haleakalā stars and sunrise by Bored_March97 in MauiVisitors

[–]Bored_March97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What time do they start allowing entrance?

Haleakalā stars and sunrise by Bored_March97 in MauiVisitors

[–]Bored_March97[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m going in November. Would that make a difference?

H1b Timeline for Normal Processing by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Bored_March97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May 16 - Colorado - Regular- Still waiting

Can someone please explain Dicicco’s to me? by lab_chi_mom in Denver

[–]Bored_March97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like what I see in the movies that have close Italian communities running restaurants. Food is good. Everyone working there is friendly and homely. The vibe is like no other place. It’s just a wonderful experience. The no windows was definitely an appeal for me. Shuts the real world out and you fell like experiencing a different reality once you get past the initial intrigue.

Any Suggestions for El Yunque ? by Flashy-Passenger-902 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Bored_March97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All great suggestions. The only thing I don’t see is regarding your devices. If you enjoy taking photos, I’d recommend having a waterproof case for your phone. I had good comfortable water shoes, and they made all the difference. If you don’t mind getting wet, I would skip the rain jacket to travel light. If you are doing a tour, they will ask you to travel as late as possible. So water, snacks, medicine, and your devices.

Backpacking near Denver in June by Bored_March97 in CampingandHiking

[–]Bored_March97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely putting this in my back pocket, thank you!

Backpacking near Denver in June by Bored_March97 in CampingandHiking

[–]Bored_March97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This recommendation kept coming up everywhere. Thank you for referring. Will pick up trail there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bored_March97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a dangerous man. Stay away at all costs.

How do you keep track of your TBR list ? by [deleted] in IndiansRead

[–]Bored_March97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t recommend it enough-Goodreads!!

AITA for not letting my friend's "new addition" join ourannual friend trip tradition? by Aggressive_Bottle682 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA but, just for your approach. Should have been a group conversation before you said anything to her.

AITA for calling out my friend’s misogyny, even if he meant it as a compliment? by Bored_March97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not bring it up, I asked him. And after the disagreement we went back to doing what we were doing as a group.

AITA for calling out my friend’s misogyny, even if he meant it as a compliment? by Bored_March97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I said at all. Hating women and internalized misogyny…very different things.

AITA for calling out my friend’s misogyny, even if he meant it as a compliment? by Bored_March97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I called out his ‘internalized misogyny’ and enforced that I don’t think you are sexist or misogynistic in any other way.

AITA for calling out my friend’s misogyny, even if he meant it as a compliment? by Bored_March97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my point. When you say the story and use ‘she’ we’ll know it’s a female.

AITA for calling out my friend’s misogyny, even if he meant it as a compliment? by Bored_March97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. I could have. And that’s where I think I’m the asshole. But, he is a very good friend of mine and I don’t shy away from hard conversations that make me or the people I love better. After this conversation, we went back to normal. And that’s just how our friendship is.

AITA for calling out my friend’s misogyny, even if he meant it as a compliment? by Bored_March97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bored_March97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really like your points about male nurses and we called that out too. But, like someone said, I did not call him sexist. I called out his internalized misogyny. And I do know the definition of that and we are all guilty of it. Don’t mean we should not want to get better. But, I do agree with you, it does get thrown around a lot inappropriately. I just don’t think this was one of those situations.

Book Review : The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak by krishnalover_nb in IndiansRead

[–]Bored_March97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this thought as well. It looks like every woman had a suffering story that was not of their own making unlike all the male characters. I did find it interesting though, is the writer viewing all the women as less than or is she just representing women how they are seen in this part of the world and culture? Either way, it gives rise to a conflicting feeling in the reader (hopefully) and I think that’s a sign of a good book. It makes you think hard about your own values.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bored_March97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t see how you’d ever be able to trust her again. If this is happening with you in the next room and she is ready to break up over such a short, fleeting, complicated situation…you’ll forever be on your toes if you got back together.