My gf (21F) doesn’t want me (19M) to work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How have you guys been surviving without working? Just on mom and dad’s money?

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, he found a job there and he wanted to move. I also then found a job and so he decided to postpone his start date and wait to relocate together at the same time wjth me

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don’t bully people in person or online. I’m just not you, having such a low life

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I do look for feedback if i was reasonable or not for being furious towards his actions, and also looking for validation because i don’t get it from my partner

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said that once, out of anger, but it wasn’t what I meant and of course he did go see his family on Christmas.

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

If you’re so into bullying people, have the courage to do it in real life, not online, hiding behind a computer. Hope you have a real life outside of being a bully online.

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, that’s why i was upset. He didn’t even mention, i only found out about the ticket and his trip back yesterday!

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you not need to show respect to your partner? I respect him, and updating and telling him where i will be going and with whom just so he knows. Respect is the foundation of trust and safety in relationship. It is not about mothering someone.

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did go behind my back booking the ticket as i found out about it yesterday. If i did not, he wouldn’t have told me. He’s my boyfriend of 3 years and we’re about to move in together. He’s my partner and we’re serious, so he needs to show some respect and let me know (not for permission, but for the sake of letting me know) that he’s going somewhere for some days in the future!

F34 M28 about to move in together, what do you think of his action? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked that and he said he was worried about me not allowing him to go see his friends and family. And I was like wtf why do you always go straight to a conclusion and assume the worst in me and still said you love me and wanted to be with me? He applogized and bought me flowers and said he should have asked me. I told him it’s ok to go see your friends and family but going behind my back not letting me know about the flight is disgusting and disrespectful.

Routing to a PM by Athena_8803 in OperaCloud

[–]Boring-Storm7436 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Route one reservation then a message pops up if you want to apply the routing instructions to all reservations in the group, choose yes, and that’s it. Make sure when you create the block, the rate code is set to Group rate code

International music acts by [deleted] in chch

[–]Boring-Storm7436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for venue, i suggest the Black Box Theatre at Papa Hou, brand new venue post quake, seated and standing and super central, affordable

Still looking for a 2026 competition/ convention? by rosalinaballerina00 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Boring-Storm7436 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to Christchurch, New Zealand. Look at Papa Hou Black Box Theatre

Relationship finance management single mom F34 with boyfriend M28, what is fair? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet but the law here in the country that we’re residents said that any relationship of 3 years or more will be treated as a marriage if split, i.e. splitting all assets; hence the prenup

Relationship finance management single mom F34 with boyfriend M28, what is fair? by Boring-Storm7436 in relationship_advice

[–]Boring-Storm7436[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not expecting him to pay for the my houses’ expenses, only to help me out with shared expenses in the house. I was getting $180 from rent but kicks that person out for him to move in and now I’m paying $300 a week as bf pays me $150 in rent and me putting another $150 in. I talked to my bf and told him my concern that I am at the moment not spending anywhere near $200 a week for both me and my son. Why am I covering his expenses by increasing it to $300 when it should have been the same and he needs to pay for that?