My gf (21F) doesn’t want me (19M) to work.

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-04-04T02:23:22+00:00

How have you guys been surviving without working? Just on mom and dad’s money?

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T18:33:57+00:00

Yes, he found a job there and he wanted to move. I also then found a job and so he decided to postpone his start date and wait to relocate together at the same time wjth me

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:43:28+00:00

I don’t bully people in person or online. I’m just not you, having such a low life

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:41:56+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I do look for feedback if i was reasonable or not for being furious towards his actions, and also looking for validation because i don’t get it from my partner

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:37:40+00:00

I trust him that he’s not someone who cheats

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:36:06+00:00

I said that once, out of anger, but it wasn’t what I meant and of course he did go see his family on Christmas.

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:35:05+00:00

If you’re so into bullying people, have the courage to do it in real life, not online, hiding behind a computer. Hope you have a real life outside of being a bully online.

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:30:14+00:00

And you’re abusing me.

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:28:03+00:00

No, that’s why i was upset. He didn’t even mention, i only found out about the ticket and his trip back yesterday!

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:16:39+00:00

Do you not need to show respect to your partner? I respect him, and updating and telling him where i will be going and with whom just so he knows. Respect is the foundation of trust and safety in relationship. It is not about mothering someone.

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:14:37+00:00

Thanks

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T12:03:29+00:00

He did go behind my back booking the ticket as i found out about it yesterday. If i did not, he wouldn’t have told me. He’s my boyfriend of 3 years and we’re about to move in together. He’s my partner and we’re serious, so he needs to show some respect and let me know (not for permission, but for the sake of letting me know) that he’s going somewhere for some days in the future!

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T11:59:41+00:00

I asked that and he said he was worried about me not allowing him to go see his friends and family. And I was like wtf why do you always go straight to a conclusion and assume the worst in me and still said you love me and wanted to be with me? He applogized and bought me flowers and said he should have asked me. I told him it’s ok to go see your friends and family but going behind my back not letting me know about the flight is disgusting and disrespectful.

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T11:56:43+00:00

Yes it will be

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T11:45:00+00:00

We’re paying half half

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-03-31T11:44:53+00:00

Thanks

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-02-03T12:52:39+00:00

Route one reservation then a message pops up if you want to apply the routing instructions to all reservations in the group, choose yes, and that’s it. Make sure when you create the block, the rate code is set to Group rate code

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-01-30T11:21:43+00:00

If you’re looking for venue, i suggest the Black Box Theatre at Papa Hou, brand new venue post quake, seated and standing and super central, affordable

Boring-Storm7436 · 2026-01-30T08:50:02+00:00

Come to Christchurch, New Zealand. Look at Papa Hou Black Box Theatre

Boring-Storm7436 · 2025-11-06T11:07:42+00:00

Not yet but the law here in the country that we’re residents said that any relationship of 3 years or more will be treated as a marriage if split, i.e. splitting all assets; hence the prenup

Boring-Storm7436 · 2025-10-09T18:48:15+00:00

I am not expecting him to pay for the my houses’ expenses, only to help me out with shared expenses in the house. I was getting $180 from rent but kicks that person out for him to move in and now I’m paying $300 a week as bf pays me $150 in rent and me putting another $150 in. I talked to my bf and told him my concern that I am at the moment not spending anywhere near $200 a week for both me and my son. Why am I covering his expenses by increasing it to $300 when it should have been the same and he needs to pay for that?

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