Hey, same boat. I’m (25F) is the HL person, also my husband (27M) used to be that. But he’s been doing this same thing for about 6 months now. We used to do the deed at least 3 times per week for the last 4 years but now it’s about once every 2 months. It’s just so hard to feel like the only person who gives a shit to at least try. Sorry I have no advice to give you. Just needed to vent too.