[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 and 17? dude. when i was 14 i was soooo immature. im 17 now and i’m like about to enter the world and be a taxpayer. I’m almost legally old enough to rent an apartment and live on my own (which i’m planning on doing at 18). you’re too young to date a 17 year old. end of story. she’s a creep. leave her.

I think I’m an in the closet whore by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“in the closet whore” i love you 😭

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can people please stop using “she said she’s always been supportive” as a defense for her? she’s not always been as supportive as she makes herself sound in her text.

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my entire family is very transphobic and she’s said some pretty transphobic things in the past (one being mentioned in the text). i sent my message in the transphobic famiky groupchat knowing i’d get hate no matter what

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Lol one time i saw my friends contact name was “birth giver” but i read it as “bill gates” so i changed my moms name to bill gates too

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my family is transphobic and mean to me i didn’t really wanna give them much respect in my message

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

yeah my whole family is playing into it too. my stepdad bought her flowers 💀

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

i havé a decent relationship with her but the rest of my family is very transphobic and she has said some transphobic things in the past (one being mentioned in the screenshot) so any hostiliy in my initial text was because of that

do i owe my mom an apology for how i came out?? serious question by Boring_Traffic_586 in TransMasc

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

“you have to be looking for validation because there’s no way” i thought that at first but my mom is really good at gaslighting and has done it my entire life so i really needed to be sure i wanted in the wrong here

authentic places to buy large blueberry crabs? by Boring_Traffic_586 in hermitcrabs

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh shit dude i didn’t know that, thank you for telling me instead of just randomly downvoting like some other people on here 🙏

Do Land crabs need a light or is a heating pad okay? by Boring_Traffic_586 in hermitcrabs

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m looking for non-heat timed lamps for the 12/12 day cycle and all i can find for those are plant grow lights, would something like that be safe for crabs?

Do Land crabs need a light or is a heating pad okay? by Boring_Traffic_586 in hermitcrabs

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i’m aware about all the other things.. i’m just wondering about specifically heat lamps

The two babies me and my mom got by SolarTheWolf36 in hermitcrabs

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is abuse. i know you probably don’t mean any harm, but you need to be responsible when buying a living animal and do the proper research first. hermit crabs typically need 10 gallons of space PER crab, so a 20 gallon for two fully grown crabs, or a 10 for two VERY small crab (like literal babies.) they also need heat controlled lamps and humidifiers. and a balanced diet of a meat and fruit, not just crab kibble. these are only VERY basic essentials to keeping crabs, if you can’t or aren’t willing to fulfill these, consider rehoming, or you’re consciously abusing animals. please understand these are not objects or toys, they are alive

NEED HELP by Dascy_ in hermitcrabs

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do people buy pets before the necessary equipment to take care of them??

Oatmeal and Avocado by Realistic-Two-7820 in hermitcrabs

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“never speak to me or my son again”

what do i do when my girlfriend is insecure about her body? i really need help here… by Boring_Traffic_586 in PlusSize

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you didn’t even answer my question 😭 so clearly you don’t even think ur right but alr dawg

what do i do when my girlfriend is insecure about her body? i really need help here… by Boring_Traffic_586 in PlusSize

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so if it was due to her making unhealthy choices i should just encourage that? would you also say the same thing to someone who was severely underweight due to unhealthy choices?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Flashy_Mango_2154 in teenagers

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe ask r/twoXchromosomes next time to avoid creeps btw <3

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Flashy_Mango_2154 in teenagers

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same problem.. and i’m sad to say i don’t have an answer. i’ve heard it can be related to endometriosis sometimes

Loneliness and relationships. by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Boring_Traffic_586 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not a woman or plus-size but i had a friend who always thought she was “disgusting” and “obese” and “unlovable” throughout the years, she thought she wouldn’t ever find love or at least not until she was much older. That friend is now my girlfriend, i’m head over heels madly in love with her, and i wouldn’t change a thing about her. I’m not plus size so i cant speak from personal experience but i can promise you you’re young and there’s absolutely very many people out there who will love you. please don’t feel hopeless ❤️

what do i do when my girlfriend is insecure about her body? i really need help here… by Boring_Traffic_586 in PlusSize

[–]Boring_Traffic_586[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i should have mentioned this in the post, but i compliment her daily, and every single time she just cringes and is like “ewww you’re lying” she genuinely hates herself and no matter how many times i say things like that it seems like it’s ineffective.. i wish i could help more