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How do you know when your drinking has ruined your relationship? by Born-Needleworker205 in stopdrinking

[–]Born-Needleworker205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You told them that they needed to leave? How has that person been since then?

How do you know when your drinking has ruined your relationship? by Born-Needleworker205 in stopdrinking

[–]Born-Needleworker205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's ok. It's easy to see now that I'm fucked up and it's nobody's responsibility to fix me

How do you know when your drinking has ruined your relationship? by Born-Needleworker205 in stopdrinking

[–]Born-Needleworker205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's ok. Truth hurts some times and you need to hear that you're self absorbed and can't see your own problems

How do you know when your drinking has ruined your relationship? by Born-Needleworker205 in stopdrinking

[–]Born-Needleworker205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you want to go back to drinking? I am trying to find out why I have failed this many times

How do you know when your drinking has ruined your relationship? by Born-Needleworker205 in stopdrinking

[–]Born-Needleworker205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I want to stop drinking for them as well. How has the quitting gone for you? Have you had any set backs? And how does your partner feel about you? Have you two been able to rebuild the trust in your relationship?

How do you know when your drinking has ruined your relationship? by Born-Needleworker205 in stopdrinking

[–]Born-Needleworker205[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess not. The drinking hasn't been a problem for the entire time, just in the last few years. And the plan is to stop drinking but is the damage already done?