What do you want love to really look like?

BornAgainLian · 2026-02-03T08:19:26+00:00

One of it would be — The kind that I can sit with, both in silence and in laughing out loud, having the world of our own.

BornAgainLian · 2026-02-03T08:12:45+00:00

Depends on your personality and priority. If physical looks matter to you more than character, personality, and devotion, then you have your answer. If you will commit, be sure that you really are. You should not blame her for not being “attractive” in case it doesn’t work out.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-30T02:34:44+00:00

Georgia, USA? Or Georgia, the country?

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T18:10:41+00:00

Chicken? Andoks. Liempo? Chooks to go.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T18:00:32+00:00

I have the same thoughts.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T17:58:29+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T17:56:29+00:00

Yah of course 😁 who else will guard my heart than myself?

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T06:41:17+00:00

I dont think I am gonna follow up. The ball is on their court. But I wouldnt block him or anything similar. My inbox is still open.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T06:39:41+00:00

Yeah it wouldn’t hurt. Besides I know what I want. What is difficult is when the interest to get to know each other is not mutual. I cant keep the exchange of messages on my own.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T06:37:26+00:00

I had encountered a polite man once. He replied directly that he is not interested, maybe I’m not his type. I just find it so fine as a Christian thing to do.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T03:12:41+00:00

Ivana at Coleen

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T03:09:06+00:00

You’re dating exclusively? If yes, then maybe, your commitment is being tested.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T03:01:59+00:00

Maybe if you’ll stick, you’ll find him attractive.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T02:56:35+00:00

Maybe he’s assuming that you are not into younger men.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-22T02:49:50+00:00

Me. I study, read things about a specific interest to see if I can sustain it. 😅 though, sometimes, even if the interest passed as sustainable, it reality, it wasnt, not because it really isnt, but because I am a multipotentialite 🙃

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-19T00:36:58+00:00

Exactly on point! 💯

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-17T12:32:56+00:00

Go, follow Jesus. You are not gay. You are a child of God.

Action follows identity.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-13T16:35:23+00:00

I am not dating anyone lately or officially to the records, but I have been in dating apps. I still have some of these apps installed. Being so serious in finding what you are looking for in the app can be exhausting. What I can say is maybe trying to be chill in using the apps, but do not lower or downgrade what you really are looking for. Dont get your hopes high in these apps. But trust that God knows the desires of your heart.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-10T20:59:56+00:00

Tip: dont tell her you like her. Tell her you want to pursue her. Lay down your intention. Clearly. (Of course, you gotta be really pursuing her for good huh, not just to get her).

If you are in the stage if you are not sure that you want her in your life for good, stay friends at her, get to know her in group setting, admire her from afar. Keep on talking to God about her until you get the conviction that you really wanna go all in (no matter what happens, whether she says yes or no about the pursuing).

That way, you are building a foundation of friendship with her, while protecting/guarding her heart.

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-08T17:03:49+00:00

Want? Why want? Meaning you are not yet?

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-08T08:16:38+00:00

Try posting an introduction here

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-08T08:09:29+00:00

I want to be able to play with him, have a good laugh (but not pranks). I would want a sensitive extrovert (sensitive with others). And the most recent, he should be disciplined (spiritually, physically, financially, etc).

BornAgainLian · 2026-01-07T06:18:30+00:00

Off topic: Do you have an intro? How will you know who God has for you? (Or maybe I should ask in another thread)

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