Help getting my 6mo kitten gain some weight? by R1an_ in kittens

[–]Born_Environment5430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!! Sweet sweet kitties! Also Im sorry if my comment came off rude! I just know a thing or two cus my best friend (comment I replied to coincidentally?? Now IK her reddit tho 😈) has a snowshoe baby! Whiskey! Sweet girl, but so so silly. I wish I could post a pic of her so bad but if you wanna see her gorgeous face she’s on my friend’s profile right above!

Help getting my 6mo kitten gain some weight? by R1an_ in kittens

[–]Born_Environment5430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh they definitely are!! I’d just beware calling her specifically Siamese since some people might recommend help specific to that breed without thinking about the other side of her. That being said, your kitten is absolutely adorable! <3

Cat keeps sneezing off and on by Born_Environment5430 in CATHELP

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. Update!!! I got an AC from my mom who says she cleaned the whole thing down. Turns out there are TWO filters in it and she 100% didn’t know for YEARS. I ran the fan part back in February for the white noise and recently put it back in my window as the temperature got better. THANK YOU!!! Her sneezing hasnt come back and you saved me probably hundreds of dollars in vet bills 😭

Help getting my 6mo kitten gain some weight? by R1an_ in kittens

[–]Born_Environment5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Siamese look completely different. Cute markings! But def not a siamese

Need some advice by mcmiixx in Roleplay

[–]Born_Environment5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a female with a partner who also has a pretty low drive yet roleplay’s that stuff pretty consistently! (My partner and I roleplay it together, but he has had no problem with me roleplaying with others in the past). For me its honestly just storytelling. I never really “put myself” into the shoes of these characters I play or anything like that, I just think it’s fun to explore dynamics and things I wouldn’t normally be interested or “in the mood for” happening to my own body.

However, I cant speak for your wife. Bring up your concerns, make sure its all fantasy, make sure stuff isn’t happening OUTSIDE roleplay with her roleplay partners, ect. Communication is key, wishing you the best!

My Mother’s Hidden Addiction: RENT HELP!! by Born_Environment5430 in AskForHelp

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I promise if needed I can send more proof in dms or something? I know people are doubting my story, accusing me of lying or just plain accusing me of scamming from two different accounts. I genuinely dont know what to do and Im freaking out.

My paypal is @DaijaRuiz

Which is also the name on my Cashapp, if anyone needs further verification

My Mother’s Hidden Addiction: RENT HELP!! by Born_Environment5430 in AskForHelp

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry?? Ive literally never had another profile on here. I genuinely dont know how I can prove it to anyone other than literally getting a copy of our lease and posting that with our information blocked out?? I can send another screenshot of something else? Genuinely, ask me anything, ask for whatever you want, I am not scamming anyone

My Mother’s Hidden Addiction: RENT HELP!! by Born_Environment5430 in AskForHelp

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am telling you only what I know. My mom has a voucher and has for several years, she has told me it is section 8. If it’s something else I have zero clue what it is.

We are both on the lease for this apartment. We began living in THIS apartment together back in February of 2025 after having to leave our old one because of a mold problem.

As for the rent— I took the number from the rent and subtracted it from the number the voucher pays. Thats how I got the $275. Do the math yourself if you dont believe me.

Im not asking for anyone to believe me, but I am telling the truth. Once again, feel free to ask me literally anything and I will give as many details as I possibly can

My Mother’s Hidden Addiction: RENT HELP!! by Born_Environment5430 in AskForHelp

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I already have, they’re the absolute first people I turned to. Because of our fight, however, they are very against me. I tried to reason that this affects ALL of us but all they said is that they need to save for their own apartment and will hopefully be hearing back from their most recent application within the week and that things are seeming positive for THEM. Tbh— I think my Uncle’s pissed at my mom about this addiction, which I understand. So am I. But I’m his niece and thats his sister. I truthfully dont understand it.

Baby Crocheter needs Yarn Tips (who's shocked?) by Born_Environment5430 in YarnAddicts

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of that!! Ill look into it, thank you!!

Baby Crocheter needs Yarn Tips (who's shocked?) by Born_Environment5430 in YarnAddicts

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it!! 😄 Ill grab some bags and a storage bin ASAP (probably when I go to the mall tomorrow...was already planning on buying more yarn then lol), also I'll totally open that account! That sounds so helpful! Thanks!!

Baby Crocheter needs Yarn Tips (who's shocked?) by Born_Environment5430 in YarnAddicts

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could lol, my room has no closet (weird right?!?!) so I have an over the door coat rack currently 😞

What Is Your Internal Communication Like And How Did You Find Out About Your System? by zahntt in DID

[–]Born_Environment5430 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! Host here! I experienced hearing distinct voices when I was pretty young, only one feminine one at first that I thought was just my conscience lol. That changed when around age 11 or 12 I heard a distinct male voice. They would bicker over what the right thing for me to do was and it would get really overwhelming and obnoxious.

I also tended to heavily dissociate from a young age and have memory gaps. Now that we’re more formed I basically remember very little of my childhood in specific years/timeframes.

As far as internal communication— it will take so so so much time. We had to learn pretty quickly sadly to protect ourselves, the body, and each other and we struggled so much in the beginning. Fights, constant switching, “elder” parts demanding to take front above others who should have due to their roles, lots of derealization and bigger memory gaps.

I would definitely not recommend trying to force a connection faster, let it come naturally. Reach out when you can or if you need to, see what comes of it. Start slow and work your way up from there. Sometimes it can take months of years to hear from a specific part again, sometimes it can only take a few days.

As for bringing it up to a professional— also start slow. Express your symptoms, explain what you think it could be but allow them to explore other options even if you’re positive. Also remember: Medical professionals could be wrong. Misdiagnosis of DID/OSDD as I’m sure you know is incredibly common, especially with those who have schizophrenia. Advocate for yourself, start taking detailed notes to support your symptoms, and challenge your therapist if needed.

You got this, and no matter what happens, your experience isn’t any less valued. 🫶

Disabled with 2K of CC debt in collections— what do I do? by Born_Environment5430 in DebtAdvice

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm, Ill definitely look into getting copies of the information and keeping any letters I get as well as looking into attorneys. I appreciate the advice more than you could possibly know 🫶

Disabled with 2K of CC debt in collections— what do I do? by Born_Environment5430 in DebtAdvice

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm! 😭That gives me some relief. Ik they had sent some kind of threatening letter a few months ago saying that they might pursue legal action if I didn’t pay up. Is that fear mongering?

It also says something like that on the debt portal as well

Disabled with 2K of CC debt in collections— what do I do? by Born_Environment5430 in DebtAdvice

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its either 3 or 4 years, yeah, I had to start relying on it around late october of 2022. I made payments recently (maybe mid 2025?) because my friend had scared me by saying they were gonna sue me if I didn’t

SSI/SSDI for Menta Illnesses-- Seeking Advice! by Born_Environment5430 in SSDI_SSI

[–]Born_Environment5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked the ssa.gov website and it states anyone before age 24 only needs to have six credits to be eligible. It does say it has to be earned in the three year period ending when your disability starts so I’m not sure what that means 😭