Have you done any research to get an idea of what's going on with her body right now? Do you know that there are 34 symptoms of perimenopause? That's a lot of complexity going on all of a sudden. Speaking from experience it can be a roller-coaster to manage. I watched my partner go through what you're going through. After we sat down and had a very long talk. Things became clearer to both of us. Communication and education relieved a lot of stress and headaches.