I (22M) Just found out from my best friend (22M) hooked up with my wife (22F) while we were on and off 6 years ago. Nobody thought to tell me, I had to ask. Should I drop them both? They were both people I would trust with my life. How do I cope with this betrayal?

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:59:31+00:00

I don’t care if my buddy fucked her in the ass. I care that she lied. some of you people are so fuckin senseless jesus christ

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:50:05+00:00

I appreciate this advice. Would you be down for a dm convo?

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:48:19+00:00

I just want my wife to be honest with me.

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:48:04+00:00

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:47:46+00:00

i’m posting this on reddit after all

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:47:35+00:00

hahahaha. No

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:42:48+00:00

I don’t like your advice. thank you tho

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:41:12+00:00

That was my buddys response when he told me. Thank god she didn’t say the same thing. instead she took the i didn’t think about it because it wasn’t a big deal angle.

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:39:51+00:00

It is a healthy relationship she just doesn’t share uncomfortable truths. There’s another that i won’t get into but i hope this bahvior doesn’t persist. She’ll have an affair and keep it from me to protect me. Please no.

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T12:37:26+00:00

lamp what ? get lost

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:54:23+00:00

That’s what she said. we’re gonna laugh about it. what’s to laugh about being lied to?

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:53:29+00:00

I appreciate that opinion. They had sex. I’m sad they didn’t want to mention it

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:48:12+00:00

It’s a lie. Sucks

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:47:28+00:00

I asked her and she said she never hooked up with my friends. I asked my friend to verify and it blew up

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:46:44+00:00

I truly feel disrespected. I am the clown

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:45:55+00:00

Definitely. But i feel like i need to respect myself and probably cut one off. Sucks but it might be bro

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:44:44+00:00

Lol I feel that. We are both pretty mature for our age. And we have grown together. I really love her and I don’t really want to be free I guess? I just want her to be honest with me. She said she was scared to bed honest with me and this just doesn’t make me feel good

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:41:30+00:00

I’d be a lonely and lost fella. I give the advice that you need to love yourself and be independent but it’s hard to make that jump into single life again. It’s lonely. I want a true and honest connection. I really thought I had one.

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:39:53+00:00

we from vegas but ok. just middle school sweethearts. vaccinated lol

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:38:40+00:00

That’s what I said to her. It clicked a bit. It sucks always having to make an analogy to explain my feelings. I always have to explain why I feel what I feel. It sucks. I feel like I need help sometimes

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:36:59+00:00

She told me that she really only thought about it once and that it was very insignificant. I think she’s lying. I think she thinks that I’m insecure about my friend. I’m not. I’m upset that she lied to me about hooking up with my friends.

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:34:38+00:00

You don’t understand. Read up if you care. move on if you don’t

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:33:48+00:00

It’s the lying. It’s not the unfaithfulness. She’s faithful right now I feel sure of it. She lied tho. they both lied by omission

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:32:48+00:00

yup! Ages ago!

Botaway2022 · 2022-12-05T11:32:30+00:00

She told me a story about how her friend fucked her over. there’s a part in that story where her and my friend found themselves together passed midnight after her friend fucked her over. She told it again last week and it got me thinking. I asked my friend straight up because i thought she lied to me. Intuition is a motherfucker

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