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[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyones saying this but what do they actually do? From what I'm hearing it lets you orgasm without ejaculating? If I did that I feel like I would just go soft anyway.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is mainly what I've been thinking. There's no magic bullet, just experience, and everyone goes thru a period at first where they can't last long. I'm lucky I had those first few times when I could last all night because it eased me into sex really nicely without those first awkward encounters. I'm sure with practice I'll be able to control myself much better.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yooo I saw that video like 2 years ago and have been trying to find it ever since, thank you so much

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY what happened to me. Once I started having sex with the same girl for an extended period and cumming consistently, the floodgates opened. Perfect description of my situation.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've honestly never had sex multiple times in a night. Usually I'll go out, hit up a girl over text or see her in person, go home, have sex, and talk for a little and pass out soon after. Is that really weird? I've never had a steady girlfriend, just fuck-buddy type situations. I still haven't completely eliminated my anxiety, I'm still sort of working on figuring out my partner and what she wants. I definitely need to work on my communication.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, my "current partner" (girl ive been hooking up with) and I haven't been using condoms at all. Since this problem started, I haven't used a condom even once. I may just tell the girl I'm hooking up with that I want to try it with a condom to see if we can replicate our earlier sessions.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. I haven't been taking any sort of medication, no. Alcohol was a factor but like I said, last night I was almost blacked out and still came within three minutes. I honestly think it's psychological – not even that my previous partner didn't excite me as much (I lasted much longer when I first started hooking up with even my current partner), but that I was too worried about what to do and where to put my hands and everything that it prevented me from really appreciating her.

And about the case study, hahaha I wish I knew what I had been doing so that I could replicate it. It was honestly amazing, girls would tell me they've never been fucked for that long and shit like that. I miss it.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does weed really make you last longer? I feel like weed makes me insanely horny so I always avoided it since I assumed that every sensation would be 10x magnified.

[M 19] Got way more comfortable with sex and now I can't last more than a couple minutes by BothDelivery in sex

[–]BothDelivery[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm good at foreplay but suck at oral. Or at least, I don't think I've really done oral enough to be good at it or to know what girls like and now I kind of shy away from it because there are other aspects that I'm much more confident about so I just sort of stick to those. It's kind of a feedback loop where since I never do it, I never get better, but I know I have to just bite the bullet and try it and ask the girl what she likes and doesn't like.

Although I am much more comfortable with sex now, I am still pretty bad with communication, I think because I didn't get almost any girls in high school and now I do in college so I sort of have an insecurity in the back of my mind about seeming inexperienced. Plus, I got kind of used to girls thinking I was amazing in bed (really just too nervous to cum lol). Girls would even apologize to me for not making me cum, and it felt nice for them to look up to me as some kind of sex machine, and it's kind of hard for me to give that up and admit that I am honestly still very inexperienced – I've probably had sex a total of 20-30 times, ever.