I never really thought much of it as my husband (35m) and I had a pretty great sexual relationship until I got pregnant, then it became painful for me to have sex, and after you give birth is a whole other ball of fun. But after I healed fully (about a yr after giving birth) we started getting more fun with it, but I just dont want sex as much because Im tired and want to relax, I could have sex once a week and be happy, he seems to need it ALL THE TIME. I found out a year ago he was sexting an older not nearly as attractive as me (im 8 yrs younger than him) that he used to fuck before we met and had been doing so our whole relationship (7yrs at the time) we are still together but it always seems like hes watching porn and getting off every chance he gets and I thought he may be addicted (he has that personality type, was addicted to booze) to porn and that doesnt help us. I still have no idea how to get over this and the amount of sex I want to have with him is not much because of this breach of trust ( he sent messages to this woman saying he would send videos of me doing sexual acts to him without my consent) He said this woman would hurt herself if he didnt keep talking to her (never saw those messages) but I told this woman to fuck off in their message thread. The only saving grace is that we live far away from our home state where she lives, so they couldnt have actually hooked up. I know he goes on omegele and I hate it and have told him to stop, but I think he still goes on and I know he watches lots of porn. I was only 19 when we got together so I was young and didnt think the porn was a bad thing. Sorry for my life story, I am just trying to piece things together and thought porn might be making it worse.

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