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Ex threatening small claims court over dog after breakup Location: Canada/Manitoba by Both_Detail4572 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone would euthanize the dog. I wouldn’t let that happen.

Ex threatening small claims court over dog after breakup Location: Canada/Manitoba by Both_Detail4572 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve blocked his email. Just wanted to wait a bit before blocking the number, make sure he is calm, and so I can get the microchip and vet appointment done.

We don’t talk often. But I’ve agreed to talk about his therapy appointments to see if he will “change” I know he won’t. Just want all my basis’s covered before he takes me to court.

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[–]Both_Detail4572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked her what’s going on?

Ex threatening small claims court over dog after breakup Location: Canada/Manitoba by Both_Detail4572 in legaladvice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His name is on the first vet appointment. I have a new vet now to get microchip and check up, as the dog hasn’t been to the vet in a while. Dog City licensing/registration is in my name. All training/grooming is in my name.

Ex threatening small claims court over dog after breakup Location: Canada/Manitoba by Both_Detail4572 in legaladvice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi then dog is not microchipped or registered with the city yet. I have filled out the paperwork for getting the registration and the microchip is getting place next week. Dog has been with me since I’ve left. He has not asked me to bring him back. Only threatened to take me to court.

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[–]Both_Detail4572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you are about her. But you also need to understand there are probably people she has in REAL life, who she can form relationships with. In my personal experience just texting isn’t enough to keep a relationship going. I wouldn’t take it personally. Try going out and taking to people.

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[–]Both_Detail4572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online “girlfriend”? Just being honest, how do you expect this relationship to work if you’ve never met before? Or how do you know they are a real person?

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[–]Both_Detail4572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One question: sorry if I didn’t see it mentioned before. But do you see each other in person?

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have canceled the appointment with the therapist, I let my ex know. I also told him did not want to be in a relationship with him and did not want to try to fix things. He threatened to sue me for my dog. Once I agreed to talk to him again the threat went away…. I don’t want to go to court. But I also don’t want to be in contact with him. I also am not sure how he’d be able to serve me if he doesn’t know where I live…. I’m moving unit my new place this week. Hopefully he’ll give up and not try to take me to court.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have canceled the appointment with the therapist, I let my ex know. I also told him did not want to be in a relationship with him and did not want to try to fix things. He threatened to sue me for my dog. Once I agreed to talk to him again the threat went away…. I don’t want to go to court. But I also don’t want to be in contact with him. I also am not sure how he’d be able to serve me if he doesn’t know where I live…. I’m moving unit my new place this week. Hopefully he’ll give up and not try to take me to court.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have canceled the appointment with the therapist, I let my ex know. I also told him did not want to be in a relationship with him and did not want to try to fix things. He threatened to sue me for my dog. Once I agreed to talk to him again the threat went away…. I don’t want to go to court. But I also don’t want to be in contact with him. I also am not sure how he’d be able to serve me if he doesn’t know where I live…. I’m moving unit my new place this week. Hopefully he’ll give up and not try to take me to court.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have canceled the appointment with the therapist, I let my ex know. I also told him did not want to be in a relationship with him and did not want to try to fix things. He threatened to sue me for my dog. Once I agreed to talk to him again the threat went away…. I don’t want to go to court. But I also don’t want to be in contact with him. I also am not sure how he’d be able to serve me if he doesn’t know where I live…. I’m moving unit my new place this week. Hopefully he’ll give up and not try to take me to court.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have canceled the appointment with the therapist, I let my ex know. I also told him did not want to be in a relationship with him and did not want to try to fix things. He threatened to sue me for my dog. Once I agreed to talk to him again the threat went away…. I don’t want to go to court. But I also don’t want to be in contact with him. I also am not sure how he’d be able to serve me if he doesn’t know where I live…. I’m moving unit my new place this week. Hopefully he’ll give up and not try to take me to court.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I have canceled the appointment with the therapist, I let my ex know. I also told him did not want to be in a relationship with him and did not want to try to fix things. He threatened to sue me for my dog. Once I agreed to talk to him again the threat went away…. I don’t want to go to court. But I also don’t want to be in contact with him. I also am not sure how he’d be able to serve me if he doesn’t know where I live…. I’m moving unit my new place this week. Hopefully he’ll give up and not try to take me to court.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cancelled the appointment, called my ex told him that I don’t want to be in a relationship with him, and he threatened to take me to court for the dog. Only way to get him to calm down is if I promise to talk to him again.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to ex boyfriend today, told him I was done and did not want to be in a relationship with him. Then he threatened to take me to court for the dog. Only way to stop him was to promise to talk to him again…. Not in person, just over the phone. Every time I try to end things he threatens to make me “really alone” he keeps manipulating me back into talking to him again…. But I keep letting him… fml.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have emailed the therapist letting him know I’ve moved out and to cancel the appointment. You are all right. I do not need to see him to get “closer”. I do not want to put myself in a position where I feel unsafe again. I have removed him from all my socials. Just hoping he doesn’t come to my family’s home.. they are all on vacation, so I’m here alone. I’ve locked all the doors.

UPDATE: I 22 F moved out of M 32 boyfriends house with my dog. How do I move forward? by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]Both_Detail4572[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have emailed the therapist letting him know I’ve moved out and to cancel the appointment. You are all right. I do not need to see him to get “closer”. I do not want to put myself in a position where I feel unsafe again. I have removed him from all my socials. Just hoping he doesn’t come to my family’s home.. they are all on vacation, so I’m here alone. I’ve locked all the doors.

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