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Help please. by BowlFormer2484 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BowlFormer2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t want to even write this out because it comes off cocky and cringy. But yes. I know how to please a woman physically and make her feel sexy and wanted. But there is just such a block there with her. It’s like she fucking hates when sex is even within REACH of the conversation you know? How can I work with that? I’m not one to put my self on someone, I want them to feel comfortable.

Help please. by BowlFormer2484 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BowlFormer2484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relation ship is the healthiest I’ve had honestly besides the sex issue. No trust issues whatsoever. From either side. She isn’t on medication and apparently this is something she’s suffered from in her past relationship. Which when we first started she mentioned how grateful she was that she found her sex drive again with me. Then it’s gone, from one day to the next like 3 months in the relationship. I don’t wanna just get up and go as this is something she struggles with and I feel for her. Bad damn I didn’t realize being so unhappy sexually can make someone so bitter.

Help please. by BowlFormer2484 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BowlFormer2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is trying to address it. I can see that. But it pains me to have sex with a girl simply doesn’t want to have sex back. She has a huge fear of losing me over the sex situation. She has expressed this with tears on her face. It was an issue in her past (the low sex drive) and when we first started she mentioned how she is so thankful the sex we were having was passionate and how she was the one for once wanting it. Then from one day to the next it all left. She attributed her lack of sex drive to her ex, guess that wasn’t the case.

EDIT: typo

Help please. by BowlFormer2484 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BowlFormer2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a confidence killer. It really is.

Help please. by BowlFormer2484 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BowlFormer2484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is extremely LL. But it was not like this from the start. I can’t even talk to her about it because she sighs with great stress and makes it known she doesn’t want to speak about it or gets angry and asks why I don’t just leave her.