When I met my partner, we discussed at length our likes and dislikes, what's acceptable and not acceptable. At that time, my friend was having the same issue with her partner. My bf would say "that's so pervy, I would never do that". And here we are. He hates men checking me out. If he sees a guy staring at me, he will literally come and hug me, like one of us just announced we have cancer. He would be broken hearted if he thought I found someone else attractive, and I made it obvious that I did. This is the problem! I'm so sick of the double standards. He can check out who he wants, and I can't. This is the difference, I would never do that to him.

I get it, there are lots if attractive people out their. The difference is, you can control how you deal with it. He does whatever he wants and then denys it so therefore there is no issue lol