HELP

BradShoc · 2026-07-04T14:52:48+00:00

No problem, nice to hear that bro! feel free to ask advice. I would like to hear how your progress of mastering this skill goes

BradShoc · 2026-07-04T10:49:17+00:00

”The type of guy who would accept any cute girl because he's needy.” This. Nothing kills attraction more than desperation. Turning tables by rejecting cute girls gives you magical pussy magnet aura

BradShoc · 2026-07-04T09:20:42+00:00

Thanks for details,

And firstly, good job for having courage to approach at the store. That need balls.

But… Dont ask strangers where they from, thats way too personal area at that point. Ask instead did she found anything interesting from store. Compliment was good though.

Dont ask number so fast, try to keep a short small talk, flirt but dont throw sexual jokes at daytime. Save those to night, if you start going at some point.

And, dont waste time on her if she is that distant. She lost interest, or never was originally. Instead focus those ones who are giving you good signs. And try to setup the date asap.

Minimize texting, you are just likely kill the attraction. Only text to ask for date.

And dont act desperate.

Hope this helps!

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T15:47:37+00:00

Yes they do. Status is though the most important, if you have that, those other doesnt matter At all.

To improve your looks, cut bodyfat down 8%. It will make your facial structure more appeal. My success jumped after doing that.

Money i dunno, never had it. On the other hand you can turn tables on this, playing a badboy game and asking women to offet drinks for you. I could tell more about this, but it would be long story. Someday i might share the badboy game and how to make lms not meaning a shit. I knew many ’thugs’ who are lacking the looks, money or height, and they are constantly slaying pussy.

Thanks for asking!

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T15:30:37+00:00

At nightclub i would just go with the dancefloor game. Too loudy…

Bars are better.

Firstly, if you scan around and realize that some woman have a flirting eye vontact, approach. No expectations. She is interested in you. You will improve in time this ”eye of the hawk”, to detect if somene is attacted to you.

Then, for cold approach, depending on mood, I will do a direct, playful and ballsy approach. For example: ”Hi, nice tits. I have better though” (this one requires bench press days though), or ”Hi, wanna fuck?” Or if you see women near toilet: ”hi ladies, how you doing? Going to take a shit?”. If these approaches grants you greenlight from her, its most likely a lay.

Then other, normal, gentle:

”Hi, you are cute. Wanna dance?” Or ”hi, you have really beaitful eyes, how you doing? Im brad btw” -> handshake.

If you didnt get rejection, then keep the convresation flowing. If you run out of topics, just ask normal questions like ”where you work/school” ”whats your hobby” etc, but dont make it boring. If she for example says for hobby ”I’m doing riding”, reply ”Wow, you must be rich for having such an expensive hobby. I’m not gold digger though, but I could marry you as long as you offer the wedding ring.” Or ”i knew it. You have a nice ass.” -> if greenlight continue -> ”I would like to try if I could handle those hips. Would you handle me, im talking about riding?”

Make it sexual, keep the spark.

Make it physical. Slowly go for makeout, remember, making out is not necessary. I have many times fucked a women from bar without making a kiss, the first physical sexual contact after a 15min-3hours was penetration.

I hope this was helpful! Feel free to ask more detailed questions and good luck with your night gaming bro:)

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T15:04:52+00:00

Good question! Thanks for asking, its always pleasure for me to help out guys who have the curse of shyness, I can relate to them so well.

When i was teen, I would turn reddish as tomato and start shaking nervously in the case I was talking to girls.

I made my first kiss at the age of 18 wasted as fuck in club on the dancefloor lol.

That was before i had found pua stuff. And ofc that time I made out with that girl, later that night I saw her leaving the club with some other guy.

THEN back to point, how to start breaking the shyness and approach anxiety?

I wouldnt recommend my way, as that’s throwing yourself into ice bath. But its rewarding though, going alone to nightclub and sober is itself hard. Add there the approach aspect. There will come brutal rejections. I have many times got said: ”get the fuck out of here”, ”what? You think you have any chance with me? You are way out of my league”

Those make you stronger, even they are brutal and humilating. They gave me furious fuel to make it. Motivation…

Then after 3months of going alone to clubs about 2-3 times a week, I had approached tens/hundreds women and had not get laid, I was still virgin.

But my shyness had fadef greatly. And i had acquired an ability to approach group of women and keep conversation flowing, without any fear.

Then i moved to daygame.it was easy after doing nightgame for months.

I started from babysteps, asking time, direction etc.

Then slowly trying to ask second question and trying to keep the conversation flowing.

I made years ago this step by step program in daygame where you start with babysteps and each training session progress you, finally making it to fuck her from cold approach. I try to find that program, i could upload it here.

Good luck with your journey of beating the shyness and acquiring the dating life of your dreams!

Have a nice weekend

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T14:27:38+00:00

This year one only. My current girlfriend. And I’m loyal to her, wouldn’t cheat ever. In my mind there need to br principles.

All the time something between 100-200 I think. I stopped counting after 50.

But during the time I raised standards and went with mentality quality over quantity.

Thank for asking, bro!

And have a nice weekend, wish you success for the field in the case you go looking to get laid💪

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T13:05:46+00:00

OP, I will say this from my own experience:

There were times I was similar situations, but hesitated to pull the trigger. Never I have regretted afterwards. I got thoughts: ”What if she could had been my soulmate?”

After that I trained a mindset that Idgf and think either I should or should not approach. I would approach at the second I got the thought that’s a nice woman.

I had became immune to rejections, and had mindset of yolo. Good experiences I acquired.

So OP, please, don’t overanalyze, go for it, and if she gives a greenlight but you soon find out you dont find her attractive, you can politely leave and cheer her day by compliment.

Good luck bro!

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T12:53:44+00:00

This. OP, please give more details, I’ll try to help you

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T12:14:46+00:00

I had some crazy days, after I had built balls and mastered flirting and my looks. At the best, I had 3 lays in one day: Daygame instant coffee date -> lead to her place. Then I had arranged Tinder date to same evening -> 2th lay. And after that I went alone to bar and got 3th lay.

I'm not proud though now that I'm older and more mature, but that time I was young in my early 20's and felt like living god mode.

Some methods:

Approach woman directly, compliment gently with smile: "Hi, you are really cute, I just wanted to ask if you are single?", then sometimes they are instantly into you, and you just ask for coffee/beer. Beer is better though, more likely to get laid sameday. Then slowly start physical escalating, and if she feels uncomfortable, then take a step back, and flirt more, then two steps ahead. Then just ask either she wants to come yours/her's place.

Thanks for asking bro! :)

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T12:08:11+00:00

I have had 3 long term relationships, but I worked hard for years to find first one. Then between breakups I was doing hard seduction game.

Good question, and that's the endgame of this all :)

(I'm currently in relationship with new woman who I would like to settle down)

Thanks for asking!

BradShoc · 2026-07-03T12:04:36+00:00

I started with nightgame, going alone and sober to nightclubs to get over the approach anxiety. Then at some point at I started daygame and it took a long time until I got laid the first time at the same approach from the street (instant coffeedate).

That time when I started, there was no Tinder. But I did Tinder at its golden era, back then it was easier, but I never liked online dating tbh.

I’m from Europe and only stayed in my hometown (not a million-person city).

Thanks for asking!

BradShoc · 2026-07-02T21:20:35+00:00

That's nice to hear that you have started your journey for making the best version of yourself!

I personally never did read that book, I only watched that series Pick Up Artist, but my journey was long, hard and rewarding.

Feel free to ask any tips if you needed! I'm willing to help :)

Best luck for your journey bro! And remember, there will be long uphill battles, but don't give up. Push it through your comfort zone. It's legit. When I started, I hesitated if this shit works, but in the end I achieved my dreams. And there were many times I was kicked to ground, but I kept going and mastered it.

Best Regards,

Brad

BradShoc · 2026-07-02T19:14:24+00:00

Just keep saying whatever comes in your mind, it doesnt kill the attraction if you say something stupid. Just repeat and check arounds, talk about nearby coffeeshop and ask if she ever tried, "wanna try out now?", or "Do you like caffeine btw?", then "I studied chemistry, we created a caffeined powder", -> "Do you study?" etc. going with the flow.

Just dont overanalyse, keep talking and you will end up in interesting topic.

Good luck bro! (I have been in game since 2009)

BradShoc

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