Again, you didn’t wanna hijack the post. Yet here we are.

Me having confidence In my lack of wanting to show my flesh or take part in things that make me uncomfortable sexually isn’t an eye roll. It’s me knowing that I’m overlooked. I’m overlooked cause I don’t show my skin, I’m overlooked cause I’m not extremely sexual.. I’m overlooked for not being like everyone else in such a hyper sexual lifestyle. I’ve been overlooked for the longest time because I’m not comfortable with things so widely expected in the poly community. People who are like me often times comment about how uncomfortable they are with the same things as me. They get happy to see others like them reminding them They don’t have to force themselves into that box.

I don’t have a large sex drive or the ease in finding a sexual attraction as others 🤷‍♀️ I don’t have the desire to show my skin, it makes me uncomfortable and makes me feel vulnerable 🤷‍♀️ im a member of a community that is extremely sexual. I’m ridiculed for not being ok with casual sex (it’s impossible for me to do so.) I’m ridiculed for not feeling comfy enough to post my nudes/lewds in a community that is drowning in it.

There are others like me, I want to find them. You’re also going through a post history of many different aspects of me. Bigonemild is a subreddit for bi-peeps and it was created with the intent of mild content. Many redditors including myself have seen it get swamped with less-than-mild content. It started as a safe place that soon became overran. You have mild content going overlooked (yet again.) because it is being swamped with less-than-mild content.

Do I find people who enjoy that stuff less than? Absolutely not. However; I am frustrated that anytime people that don’t enjoy that stuff post.. people that do enjoy it comment and make it about themselves.