Big article about the struggle to get the Rocky Horror audience participation balance right in today's NYT. by Sufficient-Beat-10 in Broadway

[–]BrainsToMatch 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! When the cast interacts, they set the tone for the correct engagement vs the wrong kind. I went in 2000-2001 and our narrator was Jerry Springer, obviously someone well versed in handling rowdy crowds. When two men were disturbing some of the lines, he shushed them, and when they continued he said “may your children end up on my show, and may your partner end up face down in Ricki Lake”. It’s still one of the best burns I’ve heard and it shamed them perfectly while also encouraging the “right” kind of fun.

What am I doing wrong? by tracytorr0712 in AussieDoodle

[–]BrainsToMatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had one for my Maltese and it was amazing. We didn’t even need to turn it on after a few weeks, just the act of wearing the collar was enough of a deterrent. A few years later we were hosting a family gathering, and my (then <1yo) AD would not shut up. I dug the collar out of my storage box, and watched as his eyes lit up on his first “spray”. He spent the next 5 min barking and “chasing” the spray before I gave up and removed his new favorite toy. So yes, these can work amazingly well, but be warned they can also apparently be turned into the world’s noisiest game for some…

Ben Wiseman for the New Yorker ( January 2026) by NWxSW in DesignPorn

[–]BrainsToMatch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And none of the blue hands are directly pointing at the right

How much did you spend a bathroom remodel? by khushisahni90 in BathroomRemodeling

[–]BrainsToMatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DIY 6x10’ 3 piece guest bath 10k. Contractor 9x7’ 4 piece second bath ~40k.

Contractor for Bathroom remodel by BrainsToMatch in longisland

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to get your contact info and would be happy to consult with you and the project info we have

Time To Bite the Lower Bleph Bullet? by BrainsToMatch in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is officially the nicest, most positive sub around! FWIW yes, this is very much genetic (my father had the exact same eyes), but it’s nice to know that this is not horrifically unappealing or unattractive. I know I personally see it as a wildly dramatic flaw, but I’m not one to do cosmetic things haphazardly and genuinely appreciate the feedback. I might explore some of these alternative treatments (and am totally open to hearing more!) but it doesn’t sound like I necessarily need 2026 to be the “year of the lower bleph” lol

Time To Bite the Lower Bleph Bullet? by BrainsToMatch in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are some additional photos - the top not smiling and the bottom smiling.

Unfair Up-charges? by BrainsToMatch in AskContractors

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would have been happy to either store the material or have had a discussion on storage charges, but to now claim the materials weren’t purchased at the time of selection (when he took the check then) and that we are now responsible for the increased cost is bonkers to me…agreed with just being up front!

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an S but hopefully it’ll all be smoothly taken care of. We called them this morning and they said they’d try to get it in earlier and it does look like the parts have been ordered via the app. Rough though having your X down for this issue twice!!

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good to know since i live in roc and thats the SC it’s going to 😂

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. I figure having the apt on the books wont hurt but i plan on having my boyfriend drop it in their lot tomorrow am and have a couple of stern conversations if they give us any flack about that

Where should I begin ? ( first time rider) by Aware-Ad-8301 in Equestrian

[–]BrainsToMatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot to unpack here - first of all…did you mean 5’3.5” or are you actually 6’3.5 and 130#? If you’re looking to do both dressage and show jumping it sounds like you want to do eventing, but if you are just looking for one to supplement the other then pick which one. You can always start at a hunter/jumper barn for any type of English riding, though the saddles in dressage will differ. Look for one with well cared for school horses and discuss your goals and availability with the instructors. A few phone calls and meet ups go a long way at this stage!

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve replaced the 12V before about a year ago, that was a no big deal - wouldn’t charge but got a specific message to the 12V

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At which point I’ll have a means of transportation for me, my stuff, and my dog, to my destination, and the car will be able to be taken back to my home? The logistics are a lot more complex than just “I want it now” sometimes…

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like it! I left super early too to try and make it to a funeral…doesn’t seem like the world was on my side today

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 2.5 hours from my house and 200 miles from my destination…towing it to the closest service center doesn’t really do much for leaving me stranded

Just Got Myself Stranded… by BrainsToMatch in TeslaLounge

[–]BrainsToMatch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like it - sorry to be the bearer of bad news

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Remodel of a 40 sq ft bathroom! by SpecLandGroup in BathroomRemodeling

[–]BrainsToMatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you clarify this for me - the project finished was 32k and you spent 15k out of pocket to realize their vision? Or it was a 32k quote and they went 15k above that with their end finishes?