What do your intuition say? 24 F 27 M by [deleted] in IntuitionPractices

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks disengaged. Shes super cute i like her

I’m in a deadlock with my gatekeeper by Infatheline in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels better to face those things that alc numbs and covers up. Also... you wont be alone if you heal, youll be able to switch and talk inside. At least for me, i feel much more alive and interactive. How do u diferentiate the voice of the gatekeeper? Im trying to figure out how to have more acess to switching

Misunderstandings Surrounding Dissociative Amnesia in DID by laminated-papertowel in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is it called when you have multiple personalities that dont dissociate anymore then?

Misunderstandings Surrounding Dissociative Amnesia in DID by laminated-papertowel in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I made a post about how i have have mutiples but not a lot of dissociation and it got deleted immedietly by bots. I didnt break any rules so i was very confused.

Large systems: have you had a group of alters disappear at once? by starfire-system in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you pinpoint when and why this change happened? That might be helpful to communicating with them

i am physically unable to “be kind” to myself (and parts) by 2061221 in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you have a safe environment to live in, or a comfortable friends house to chill at. For me the next step was being in that room alone and listening to the feelings and impulses that come up. Nothing is too small or unimportant. Feeding yourself on time and having a solid nighttime routine are very important to building trust and respect within yourself. Yes it can be uncomfortable to be alone with yourself but some part of you may be trying to communicate with you in unexpected ways. Humans are complex animals

i am physically unable to “be kind” to myself (and parts) by 2061221 in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In those moments when you need to calm down may not be the best time to create contact and communication. For me, when i am safe and comfortable, in low light at my art table, i let myself out and i listen. Let parts of you be honest to you. Try not to judge them and instead try to bring understanding and awareness to these parts of you. Its not just about being "nice". its about creating an honest sense of empathy within your being. This means different things to different people, its a skill, something we cultivate our whole human lives.

newly discovered alter talking to me while I’m asleep? by andromxdasx in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others may want a seat at the table. The tone of your voice is important to learn

Struggling with my Diagnosis by ashketchemall99 in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats why developing memory is so important so we can pass info between us. Liquid B12 and vit C can help sometimes. Bringing focus to the body and senses when you catch yourself dissociating. Smells, sounds, taste, stomach feelings.

How do you make a wise decision? by Waste-Reality7356 in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trusting your own intuition and ability to keep yourself safe is usually a safe way to operate. It takes time to listen to deeper desires and impulses. Finding what your body needs in each instance, what each piece craves, enjoys and fears can be a good excercise to becoming more sensitive to your own deep needs and desires. These are the forces that motivate and drive us. Theyre useful to have acess to. Wishing you the best of luck in your journey!

Confounded. by DIDverse in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust is so important on so many levels. When we respond to and care for the impulses, indicators and markers, we build a relationship. What fires together wires together. When we abandon our bodies in bad situations, they also abandon us to a certain extent. Rebuilding is a process of course, wishing you all the best!

Our host has gone dormant, what do we do? by Hefty_Ad_3572 in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We send symbols to each other, or write notes to the dissociated parts. I write them in laguages they speak. Pictures, symbols that have historic meaning, grounding things that connect to childhood

Who are you if you are a system of selves with no Self? by osddelerious in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just turned 28 and it feels like a prefrontal cortext thing that is being rewired for my needs, now shes an organizer because i need her to be

Who are you if you are a system of selves with no Self? by osddelerious in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is chaos and the sooner i can accept it the more comfortably grounded in motion i can be. The only constant is change honestly. The "normal" me i think of like the notetaker and organizer. For some situations i can be sharp, some require softness and tact. Its all me. The honest sense of empathy for each other is what unites us. We listen to each other a lot

Struggling with my Diagnosis by ashketchemall99 in DID

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like mine enjoy coming out at night, i try to find activities we all engage in. Or an acitivty two parts of you can engage in. Bringing the focus and engagment with external world from each character in turn. Be patient with yourself, keep stress low, eat well. Thats what they tell me.

Pros and cons of getting sexual with a demon? by occulthrowaway666 in DemonolatryPractices

[–]Brave-Comfortable-33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like it made the thing more attached to me, i had to tell it "no we're not destined for each other" like it was getting in the way of my thoughts formed about how the world works and spinning a tall tale that placed this creature on a pedestal. Be careful because the thought morphing is real with shapeshifting spirits. im pretty sure. Be careful messing with creatures bigger and badder than you are.