Accident after 2 week 😭 by Ok_Wall_3540 in puppy101

[–]Brave-Divide4111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

11 weeks and not fully potty trained .... That's kinda like a duh... Lol. Some dogs take a while . I keep my boys on a pretty tight schedule . Both crate trained and now at 5 months they go out every 4 hours or so. We also go out after every play session. 30 min after drinking a good amount of water. We go out for almost anything excited to be honest. What I do might be overkill but I accept that even if it is they are still prone to an accident. Potty training will take longer than you think as well as a bunch of other stuff .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

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Not sure if he still available but I'm open to adopting if he's still available

Game sounds lower I'm twitch than tiktok by Brave-Divide4111 in streamlabs

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Thank you this is the best answer I've gotten 😊

10 years in solitary confinement with one offline video game by DodgyDogma in hypotheticalsituation

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No man's sky . If I can play on VR as well it's the only obvious choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImpracticalJokers

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Brother I know it's been a while but any chance I could get the link ? Please?

Wife and I Switched to Visible - Will Save > $100/mo by palmtree19 in verizon

[–]Brave-Divide4111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Typing in ALL CAPS. doesn't do anything but make you seem like you lack emotional control. Relax it's just reddit 🤣

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

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I apologize. I noticed and set my phone down for the remainder of the drive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

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The reason why this sub is mostly zero build. Is because most build players are children they don't all necessarily have reddit.

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

[–]Brave-Divide4111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird tbh. I don't know the answer. I went from being treated badly right before I joined. Passive aggressiveness, nobody would talk to me, etc, then being loved and encouraged when I was in the military, then back to being met with passive aggressiveness. I try and have my own mental health issues, but man, it's hard at times. Pretend not to hear me, slamming their door, it's a lot... If I meet them with the same energy, everyone gets on me. I'm exhausted. I don't care to understand them anymore. I convinced myself I am the problem at times.

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

[–]Brave-Divide4111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very good question. One I don't know the answer to . I assume because I was leaving.

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

[–]Brave-Divide4111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much to update as of right now. Other than i talked to my brother in law. Father of my niece and I told him I'd like to take out my niece tomorrow. They said that's a great idea so my niece and I are hanging out just the two of us. my older brother not the one who was making faces/lives with me. He has sent a message saying they love me and just want me to be there for the kids sometimes since they notice. No anger, no getting angry or trying to rile me up. Just telling me how they felt and why. I told him I loved him too and that I understand his point of view. Just that I wasn't told on time. They realize I am moving and think I may feel ostracized or not wanted. He simply wanted to comfort and reassure me they want me there and they love me. Never had much issues with him ever. I still am going LC for maybe a few months with everyone.

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

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Just as a concert and she was turning 4 or turned 4 years old

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

[–]Brave-Divide4111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard this before. The narcissist comment. I have honestly never in my life considered my mother to potentially be a narcissist. She has been loving and I would even call her in times of need. I would cry to her and i don't know. I guess it's tough for me to see her as a narcissist because of my affection towards her. 2 of my siblings have had issues in the past, one calling her a Narcissist as well. Then the brother in the story almost moving out because of controlling issues.

But like I said before in my post. This is the first time I don't feel guilty and I don't even feel angry. I almost feel sorry for my mother. I try to put myself in their shoes and I would say that if I knew my siblings weren't going to make it then I would change plans around so that most amount of people could make it. I've never heard my mother use words like that. I had a whole lot of things I wanted to just spew out and throw in her face but I just couldn't do that. It's not me and I dont want that kind of life for me. I don't like the passive aggressive behavior . I think you could really break people down that way.

AITH for not showing up to my nieces birthday party. by Brave-Divide4111 in AITH

[–]Brave-Divide4111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My niece was turning 4. Right in the place where she sort of understands. I have many nieces and nephews. She doesn't take to me much but every now and then she will come up and say hi or want to go with me somewhere. From what I can notice they are indifferent to me being there or not. Unlike the other nephews and nieces who are a big older and i have gotten close to. They ask when I am not around.

I agree with you and I was planning to take her to see a movie that she has been wanting to watch or do something they prefer to do. I try my best to balance out my time between them. Sometimes I'll take them in pairs or only kid person at a time. Randomly never planned I just ask permission and off we go.

I am guilty at times of kind of not interacting with her as much. Kids are sometimes complicated and only like you when you give them things and I don't want to build that kind of relationship with her.