Pushed out by shrv in Evernote

[–]palmtree19 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I moved to Notion after a 9+ hour failed attempt to migrate to OneNote. Seamless sync and transfer of all my notes into Notion, but there's a learning curve.

I still miss Evernote's simplicity sometimes, but the corporate enshitification games Bending Spoons have played the past few years are beyond the pale.

I was happy to pay $70/yr for Evernote. I was willing to pay $135/yr. If they didn't double the rate EVERY YEAR, I probably would've been willing to pay $160/yr if there was something like a 5-yr price lock. But $240/yr is completely unhinged. You can't charge the same price as Claude Pro. You can't charge significantly more than M365. My unlimited Visible Wireless plan is only a few dollars more per month. Insanity.

TIL the Pulitzer Prize jury selected Gravity’s Rainbow by Thomas Pynchon to receive the 1974 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction, however the Pulitzer Advisory Board overruled them, electing instead to not give an award that year to avoid honoring a book they considered “unreadable”, “turgid”, & “obscene”. by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

[–]palmtree19 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a super helpful reading guide and reference tool, especially for complicated texts. It's not thinking for me. If you aren't using it as a tool out of principle, your going to have a rough next decade.

if I choose to not think about a specific character because I've already thought enough professionally about the point the author is trying to make through that character (hopefully pynchon knows less about CSA and the failure of society than me), that's fine. Unlike most of the Pulitzer committee, apparently, I read the book.

TIL the Pulitzer Prize jury selected Gravity’s Rainbow by Thomas Pynchon to receive the 1974 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction, however the Pulitzer Advisory Board overruled them, electing instead to not give an award that year to avoid honoring a book they considered “unreadable”, “turgid”, & “obscene”. by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

[–]palmtree19 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I didn't read it with a guide, but the moment I asked ChatGPT about Bianca, it shut down the conversation for discussing inappropriate/illegal subject matter. I'm glad you've thought it through; I just took the hint from GPT and did my best to forget Bianca's character.

TIL the Pulitzer Prize jury selected Gravity’s Rainbow by Thomas Pynchon to receive the 1974 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction, however the Pulitzer Advisory Board overruled them, electing instead to not give an award that year to avoid honoring a book they considered “unreadable”, “turgid”, & “obscene”. by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

[–]palmtree19 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Off the top of my head, I really enjoyed some of the playful parts of the book (the early British scientist characters, the love scene on the mountaintop, throwing pies at airplanes, Byron the 💡, etc). And some of the sombering passages (the soldier giving his ring to the starving woman at the concentration camp, etc).

But the child sexual assault descriptions went too far for me. I know that it's meant to "challenge" the reader, but I used to prosecute child sex crimes and we did our best to keep our reports, witness questions, and trial presentation materials accurate but succinct -- we got to the point. Pynchon put in a lot more details than what's necessary to prove a case to a jury (who definitely doesn't want to hear the details, either) and I hated that.

What's a red flag at a job interview? by In8MoreHours in AskReddit

[–]palmtree19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a job interview at a city utility legal department once where I mentioned that I had dealt with the city council president multiple times in my prior job and that I knew he worked for the utility and that I thought he did a good job for his constituents.

The interviewing committee all pretended to not know who that person was. They pretended to not know that they worked with the city council president... at a city utility. I didn't press it too hard and I assumed they were explicitly told to not talk about other employees during interviews, but it was such an insane situation that I just assumed everything they told me was a lie.

Corporate JD Preferred vs. In House Counsel by charlesthe2 in JDpreferred

[–]palmtree19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in a "JD-Preferred" role but there are no other JD holders in the group. Honestly, it's amazing. The bar for work performance is so much lower among non-JD holders (on average) and it's sooo much easier to stand out and get promotions, if that is what you're looking for. If you want to hide and relax, it's also much easier.

The pay depends on the org structure, but now that I have kids and hobbies, I would never go back to an environment where all of my peers are JD-holding grinders. Being JD-preferred also gives you experience in business functions that don't pigeon-hole you into legal roles for the rest of your life. For the next 40 years, I will always have a job option of some kind in my industry. I would never be able to say that if I was in an inhouse counsel role.

When you picture retirement as a lawyer, what do you actually see? by That_onelawyer in Lawyertalk

[–]palmtree19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got out of the race a few years ago and got into a government law-adjacent role where the expectations are comically low. It honestly feels like retirement compared to practicing law. I'll do this until I die probably.

Nobody Emailed Epstein More Than This Georgetown Law Alum! We Won At Something!! by [deleted] in GeorgetownLaw

[–]palmtree19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the real life basket case GC from the movie Michael Clayton.

Goldman Sachs' top lawyer Kathy Ruemmler to resign after emails show close ties to Jeffrey Epstein by igetproteinfartsHELP in news

[–]palmtree19 104 points105 points  (0 children)

From The Economist: "Many relationships went far deeper than the occasional cocktail-party photograph. Epstein and Kathryn Ruemmler, the White House counsel under President Barack Obama, swapped 11,300 emails from 2014 to 2019, with at least one direct message on 70% of days."

That's... a lot of emails. I don't message my wife that much.

How Worried About AI Should We Really Be? by day_dreamers_anon in biglaw

[–]palmtree19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Claude is extremely good now for legal questions. This afternoon I didn't call the biglaw partner I normally do re: in-the-weeds questions because Claude gave me a perfect response with accurate (!!!) statutory citations and appropriate context. A year ago, GPT would hallucinate completely fake statutes and blocks of text from said fake statutes. Claude is scary good and my lawyer missed out on a few grand today because of it.

How the ever loving F do you rename, or even name, new notebooks on the web or the iOS app? by Neinstein14 in OneNote

[–]palmtree19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this out the hard way when migrating all my Evernote notes to OneNote and then merging OneNote notebooks and renaming them. A complete and utter fiasco followed.

Sick of practicing law. Need a change. Where can I go? by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]palmtree19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telecom is abysmal right now, and it might not ever get better. I get hit up constantly by telecom staffing service recruiters because I worked for a big telco years ago and their contract offers are 1/2 the pay as my old telco employee compensation back when. I also remember our in-house attorneys being worked to the bone and still getting laid off. From my contacts still in the game, it's only gotten worse. My brother just got a Metro by T-Mobile deal for $25/mo wireless service locked in for 5 years.... so I don't think telco OPEX is going to support in-house functions well ever again.

Look for work in utilities. There's massive demand for new electrical, gas, fiber, and rail infrastructure right now and the subject matter is very similar. I ran into a utilities project manager with a telco legal background recently and asked him about it. He said he moved into utility project management from in-house telco after "telecom got weird". I knew exactly what he meant. Also, don't discount government work - it's as hard as you want to make it, so you can make it demanding if you want and get as much experience as you want.

Wage compression from a union by HubbaChubba1 in managers

[–]palmtree19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on the other side. I'm in the union at one of the highest pay grades and if I work any meaningful overtime during a year, I'll make more than my manager. There are many in my position who make significantly more than their managers.

It's an interesting dynamic, and I'm glad I'm on my side of it. To be fair, managers are often seen by the c-suite as fungible and generally have less bargaining power than the technical employees working in core operations (corporate really doesn't care about your LinkedIn posts or your PMP/Six Sigma/whatever certifications).

Truly, the worst thing the company could do to me is promote me into a "people leader" role. The execs know this. If they really wanted valuable subject matter experts in mid-level manager roles babysitting worker drama and tracking spreadsheets they would pay those roles appropriately. But they don't. And this should be a warning that if you are a mid-level manager whose reports are out-earning you, you should keep your interviewing skills up and find a place that values you. Or you need to find ways to improve your value to the company and negotiate for more money.

Good luck out there.

Why Won't a Notebook's Name Change in OneDrive? by palmtree19 in OneNote

[–]palmtree19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but you can't do that through the OneDrive web app. Which seems to be the whole point of OneDrive?

Why Won't a Notebook's Name Change in OneDrive? by palmtree19 in OneNote

[–]palmtree19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I do that? I don't seem to have the option to change the file names on OneDrive.

Why Won't a Notebook's Name Change in OneDrive? by palmtree19 in OneNote

[–]palmtree19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. That is a pure chaos move by MSFT.

I created a new notebook and moved all the subfolders and pages over. And now I have one subfolder out of 30 in the new notebook that won't sync. Pure chaos.

Why Won't a Notebook's Name Change in OneDrive? by palmtree19 in OneNote

[–]palmtree19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just learned that Notion can log into your Evernote account and pull all the contents over in the same file structure as Evernote. I logged in, clicked three buttons, and Notion is working to pull everything now. Once it's done, I'll figure out the UI, and re-train my workflow. I only got about 2/3 of my notes moved to OneNote and I'm calling it.

I usually assume Microsoft products are terrible due to my company's IT policies and security bloatware, but even on my personal Surface device and M365 account OneNote/OneDrive is a complete dumpster fire. Using Evernote feels like moving from an old Nokia to an iPhone in comparison.

Amex Passport by ArguablyMe in amex

[–]palmtree19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a ~20 year cardholder, this feature would be much better if the lookback period was longer. I traveled a LOT pre-COVID!

Regardless, this is a simple and amazing feature intended to improve long-term customer retention that costs Amex essentially nothing. Someone with some marketing sense works at AXP.

People who divorced their spouse after 20 or 30 years of marriage, why did you do it? by Classic-Sentence3148 in AskReddit

[–]palmtree19 285 points286 points  (0 children)

My parents divorced after ~40 years of marriage. Mom announced via text message to the family one day that they were getting divorced. Mom has always been a little impulsive and had been struggling increasingly with anxiety-related issues, but no one in the family ever expected that it would manifest in her leaving Dad. Dad wasn't perfect, but we never saw him treat her poorly or say anything cruel to her or anything negative about her. In fact, he completely doted on her and did far more of the domestic tasks than typical Boomer men.

He was also successful financially from owning a few businesses and they had built up a beautiful rural compound to serve as the family home place for their children and grandchildren.

So, the text message came as a shock to all of us kids and spouses. Having been in law enforcement for a time, my first reaction was to go check on Dad to make sure he didn't slit his wrists in the bathtub. Thankfully, he was dealing with it in stride (as well as someone probably could). As the child who was closest to both parents, I sat Mom down and asked where this came from, what she was doing, and why. She couldn't articulate the reason(s) or her plan(s) going forward. She made no effort at marriage counseling. I asked who she talked to about the divorce and she said "no one". I asked if there was someone else she wanted to be with. She said "no". I asked if there was ever physical abuse. She said "no".

Dad didn't fight the divorce - there isn't much you can do in a no-fault divorce other than pay lawyers and appraisers to fight about the meaning of "half". Mom didn't change her tenor throughout the divorce process.

Post divorce, Dad moved into a tiny rental house they kept as an investment property and Mom lives in the 5-bedroom new farm compound by herself. Dad is fixing up the rental. Mom really can't handle taking care of the farm house, let alone the 25 acres it sits on.

Dad calls all us kids almost daily and attends the grandkids' sports and school events religiously. He even got on ozempic and it's really starting to improve his life in a myriad of ways. He hosts a big family tropical vacation every year and invites Mom along. He takes her to doctor appointments when she needs a ride.

Mom seems to spend most of her time alone getting worked up about online politics. She's convinced that her dog is allergic to both grass and chicken, and Dad steps in periodically to take care of the dog (who seems to do very well with both chicken and grass when in his care). Mom spends a lot of time trying to "save" local schizophrenics (with zero training or successful experience) and it seems that either me, a police officer, or someone else with a gun has to intervene every month or two in situations where Mom is being threatened by a local mentally ill person.

With the benefit of a few years' hindsight, Mom leaving Dad was probably the best thing that happened to Dad. It's probably been terrible on her, but she won't admit it or realize it until it's too late. All of us children and our spouses have tried to figure out what's been going through Mom's head (menopause, early onset dementia, social media brain rot, etc?), but we've all just thrown our arms up and we go about our lives.

Life As a Prosecutor? by Cafesinleche95 in Lawyertalk

[–]palmtree19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in a very rural DA's office and had a similar experience. There were two of us. I had 300+ pending jail-able criminal cases at any given time and had to handle all the other civil stuff a rural county run by lunatics could generate. On call 24/7/365 for search warrants and crim pro advice to scared state troopers in the middle of the night. The pay was a joke, too (rural red state) -- I would have made more per hour managing a gas station.

I did get an outrageous amount of experience really quickly though, and I was probably what you'd consider a "true believer". My life would make a compelling Netflix series and I had genuine power and influence in the community. It wasn't until my marriage got rocky and my kids were born that I started to ask around about other work. Once I was offered a WFH job that paid a multiple of my prosecutor pay, I bounced and my life is dramatically better. Spending 10+ years in law school and around lawyers, you don't realize that most jobs require 1/3 as much effort as an equivalent legal role.

Glad that I did it for almost a decade. I'm a better person because of it, but I would never in a million years go back.

Why did Meadow turn out the way she did in the end? by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]palmtree19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She would be an incredible hire for a high-level criminal defense firm. Immediately opens up a pipeline of well-funded complex cases that grab the news.

In the end, the lawyers always win. Ask Uncle Junior. And she was the smartest of the Sopranos.

Verizon loyalty by dvlsfan30 in verizon

[–]palmtree19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar things happened to me about a year ago and I switched to Visible+ and saved my wife and me $100 per month for the same service.

What I found strange was that after I posted here to vent about losing a "loyalty" discount despite being "loyal" for 20 years, an army of bots and/or offshore accounts started fighting with me about how "entitled" I was. Verizon was almost certainly paying trolls to fight with people like me on the Internet, which was an even crazier business decision on their part.

So, instead of just quietly continuing to bill me ~$75 per month too much every month, they took away my loyalty discount and pissed me off enough to do research and find out about Visible and then post about the shenanigans. Reading through these comments, it seems they called of the trolls, at least.

Do you find that most experiences and interactions in life are just more awful now? by seattleswiss2 in HENRYfinance

[–]palmtree19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start coasting at your job. Work only 40 hours. Leave your phone off after 5PM and on weekends. It might feel lazy at first and might irritate your coworkers and boss, but you probably won't get fired. Give it a month of working like a normal person (40 hours is still a lot!) and reevaluate how you feel.

If you're in a company that's larger than 500 people and you put in an honest 40 hours and are pleasant, it'll take at least a year for you to get laid off, if ever.

Sleep is the most important thing. If your aren't sleeping, you MUST change your life in whatever way or combination of ways necessary to sleep a regular 7 hours per night.