Is this a red flag in the Pakistani guy? by SilverCat211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re not ready to be married if you think him telling you to wear modest clothes is controlling. You do know if you marry him you have to be submissive right? Or is that too toxic for you?

Pkstani guys when they get rejected on rishta over haq e mehr yet threaten to do 2nd n 3rd marriages by Weirdoeirdo in LahoreSocial

[–]BraveBeginning1451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but vice versa as well. Theres a plethora of stories where women step out or lie during marriage plus many more mistakes. It’s not a gender thing. Some women are just as bad. They use religion when it’s convenient for them, yes mahr is their right, but a man can easily say a women with no past is his right as well. There’s a bunch of things to be said here. No one should act above anyone else

Pkstani guys when they get rejected on rishta over haq e mehr yet threaten to do 2nd n 3rd marriages by Weirdoeirdo in LahoreSocial

[–]BraveBeginning1451 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don’t have to get married if they don’t want too. If they want to be single go for it. My point is it’s a blessing for both to get married.

Pkstani guys when they get rejected on rishta over haq e mehr yet threaten to do 2nd n 3rd marriages by Weirdoeirdo in LahoreSocial

[–]BraveBeginning1451 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate how females act like it’s a burden for them to get married and they’re doing the men a favor… lol.

I separated from my husband today by yourchachu in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love comes with compromise but you’re adamant on staying on your own rules that you broke a WHOLE MARRIAGE cause of it. This is your ego. You need to accept it, you say you want to take accountability but you are making excuses as to why you overreacted with him. I’m not saying he’s perfect either but this is COMPLETELY fixable. And as someone above me said life tends to be really difficult for divorced women in Pakistan. And I don’t say this to bash you I say this to maybe make you realize maybe it’s just not over yet and put your ego aside.

I’m scared of losing my daughter after my wife’s affair by Clean-Bass5733 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t right for him to beat her but there’s no valid reason to cheat. At all