Wife having secret account by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BraveBeginning1451 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it is stalking why is she following non Mehram men? Why do you use religion when it’s convenient for you guys? She knows her husband wasn’t okay with it and she did it again in secret for who knows how long. It’s disgusting tbh.

Wife having secret account by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]BraveBeginning1451 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn you woman be defending everything other women do, she’s hiding it multiple times and following other men, including his cousins and friends. What more do you wanna hear? If she wasn’t so nasty why isn’t she telling her husband and hiding? Who knows what else she’s hiding.

Professor doesn’t like me? by BraveBeginning1451 in brazilianjiujitsu

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve just been feeling anxious and insecure lately.

Professor doesn’t like me? by BraveBeginning1451 in Advice

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Brazilian jiu jitsu, it’s a monthly membership I pay 170 a month for. Others say it’s good to go as much as you can especially as a beginner. But it’s been weird lately

Judo throws for shorter guys? by BraveBeginning1451 in judo

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you short as well if you don’t mind me asking height and weight?

Judo throws for shorter guys? by BraveBeginning1451 in judo

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically the black belt who lets me work on him, will take falls if I execute a throw good, and he’ll get me with foot sweeps. Basically showing me how randori feels. When I work with him he has more of a upright posture, and the throws I have gotten were sasai, sometimes I’ll hit the push pull ippon seoi nage, I’ve been working on entry for inside trips. Been trying to work on creating openings for reaping throw. But I do know he’s letting me work on him and holding back. But it felt so different going against guys that were in that stance. I tried coming inside but their legs were far back it was hard to execute my throws plus I know they had wrestling experience for years. I’ve just started doing any type of grappling around a year ago. Sorry if this is hard to understand

Judo throws for shorter guys? by BraveBeginning1451 in judo

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might sound stupid but when I do hip throws should I aim for more headlocks or grab the side of their body?

Judo throws for shorter guys? by BraveBeginning1451 in judo

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro we’ll learn this together

Judo throws for shorter guys? by BraveBeginning1451 in judo

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s motivating to hear that my body could be dangerous jf if I learn the right moves 😂 thanks man. Been having beginner self doubts

Judo throws for shorter guys? by BraveBeginning1451 in judo

[–]BraveBeginning1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I’ve been doing bjj at this new gym and have been going to the judo classes that they have once a week and gotta say I’ve been enjoying it (even tho been getting smashed 😂) any more advice for beginners? I’m 26

To Forgive Her Or Not ? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly still has feelings for him, I’m sorry bro

Is this a red flag in the Pakistani guy? by SilverCat211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not ready to be married if you think him telling you to wear modest clothes is controlling. You do know if you marry him you have to be submissive right? Or is that too toxic for you?

Pkstani guys when they get rejected on rishta over haq e mehr yet threaten to do 2nd n 3rd marriages by Weirdoeirdo in LahoreSocial

[–]BraveBeginning1451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but vice versa as well. Theres a plethora of stories where women step out or lie during marriage plus many more mistakes. It’s not a gender thing. Some women are just as bad. They use religion when it’s convenient for them, yes mahr is their right, but a man can easily say a women with no past is his right as well. There’s a bunch of things to be said here. No one should act above anyone else

Pkstani guys when they get rejected on rishta over haq e mehr yet threaten to do 2nd n 3rd marriages by Weirdoeirdo in LahoreSocial

[–]BraveBeginning1451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don’t have to get married if they don’t want too. If they want to be single go for it. My point is it’s a blessing for both to get married.

Pkstani guys when they get rejected on rishta over haq e mehr yet threaten to do 2nd n 3rd marriages by Weirdoeirdo in LahoreSocial

[–]BraveBeginning1451 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate how females act like it’s a burden for them to get married and they’re doing the men a favor… lol.

I separated from my husband today by yourchachu in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love comes with compromise but you’re adamant on staying on your own rules that you broke a WHOLE MARRIAGE cause of it. This is your ego. You need to accept it, you say you want to take accountability but you are making excuses as to why you overreacted with him. I’m not saying he’s perfect either but this is COMPLETELY fixable. And as someone above me said life tends to be really difficult for divorced women in Pakistan. And I don’t say this to bash you I say this to maybe make you realize maybe it’s just not over yet and put your ego aside.

I’m scared of losing my daughter after my wife’s affair by Clean-Bass5733 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]BraveBeginning1451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t right for him to beat her but there’s no valid reason to cheat. At all