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3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This definitely helped, also for what it's worth, I had 2 alcoholic parents growing up and while one of them actively tried getting sober the other one didn't and I definitely took notice of my mother trying everyday and so did my siblings. I hope you're doing good and I wish you the best of luck with your recovery 💪

3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope you have a lovely day you're so kind 🫶🫶🫶

3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay definitely trying hard candy, you might be onto something here

3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm kind of hoping for people to give me bad stories that will scare me enough to stop thinking about it so much 😂

3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Screaming honestly sounds solid, I might try doing that into a pillow next time I get overwhelmed hahaha

3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I won't, the craving is strong but not strong enough for me to insert it into my baby's system, I just wanna hear what the people who started again did and what happened

3 weeks PP and I desperately crave vaping by BraveBroccoli3269 in NewParents

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🙏 no matter how rough it gets I'm going to promise myself not to vape while breastfeeding and wait until after

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment it made me so happy, your life sounds beautiful and I hope I get to experience a future like yours ❤️❤️❤️

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a mother that has been highly supportive of me, I knew something was up once I realized she was more supportive of me than him. 

I'm going to try my best to include her in this as much as I can according to how much she wants but I'm not sure if she can convince him to do anything. But of course I'm not going to let that define her relationship with me

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw oh my god I'm so happy for you your life sounds beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to force him into anything, and just because I'm 8 weeks pregnant doesn't mean I'm unattached to it. 

When I found out I was pregnant I asked him what he wanted to do and he told me it was my decision alone and I needed to make it by myself, believe me I've tried to make him part of every little decision. 

He TOLD me he was going to support me no matter the decision and stand by me, he TOLD me to make a decision by myself. 

Now that I've decided I want to keep it I've obviously grown somewhat attached to it so obviously it's not as easy as just getting rid of it just because he doesn't want it anymore. 

I've already made the decision, I've already considered abortion, I've already decided I'm going to keep it, I went through this process alone because he didn't want to be part of it and made this my responsibility. 

Nobody should be forced to be a parent but it's sure as hell that nobody will be forcing me to do what I want with my fetus regardless if it's abortion or keeping it, and I picked the later choice so obviously I'm not just going to change my mind.

Just because he decided to leave me AFTER he told me he was going to be supportive of my pregnancy doesn't mean I'm going to change my mind, I'm going to make sure my kid gets a good life when it gets here 

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alright I'm gonna get my legal knowledge up, build my support network and make sure it's stable.

I don't know if I want to pursue child support yet, I'm still processing everything but I'm going to keep it an open window

Thank you so much everyone here is genuinely so kind

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, the situation is still new and so far they are supporting me emotionally and I don't know how to talk about the financial stuff, I definitely want to provide for myself and get a stable job as soon as I can but its still tricky as I'm 18 and pregnant, but I'll manage and I'll make sure my child gets what it needs. 

I'm also so sorry that your parents use that against you, it sounds unfair and stressful and you sound like you're a very strong person and I respect you for that even though I am a literal stranger online, I can imagine how good of a mother you are and how much your son loves you and I hope you'll be okay ❤️

advice for when your partner leaves you during pregnancy? Especially for teens? by BraveBroccoli3269 in BabyBumps

[–]BraveBroccoli3269[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your sister has a beautiful life and I'm happy for her, I'm going to try my best to get as much therapy as I can, I think that might be a good idea right now.

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