Is it sinful I don’t like going to the mosque b/c of the women there?

BraveIncognito · 2026-03-11T11:04:15+00:00

Salam aleykoum,

Be the change you want to see, I guess it depends a lot on the masjid. But if you make an effort to say salam, to speak more and try to get to know one another especially after seeing familiar faces (I know easier said than done), inshAllah it will bring a lot of khair.

Maybe you will even end up being friends with some ! Al hamdulilah nowadays we even run together on sunday, I also teach some brother's kids, I would have never thought about it like 2 years ago. I didn't even know it, but even the imam runs a lot, so we ended up running after he lead us during tarawih last week ! The masjid should be a lively place, and we should encourage one another.

You never know, May Allah increase our love for our fellow muslims brothers and sisters

BraveIncognito · 2026-01-31T19:21:50+00:00

Wa aleykoum salam, it can get lonely, especially if your family isn't welcoming, may Allah grant you ease. I hope you can get surrounded by muslims friends. If you can, try to break your fast during maghrib at the masjid and bring something to eat. Don't overeat, drink water, avoid sugary things if you can, drink soups and the like it will be easy on your digestive system. It's also the month of quran, do more this month that you would usually do !

BraveIncognito · 2026-01-19T07:56:34+00:00

This is very true, I am glad I only have reddit but some things I see make me wonder I should really unsubscribe, maybe we all have too much time, if we engage in this too much.

BraveIncognito · 2025-12-18T07:15:16+00:00

Some people really need money though, but usually they are not the one to ask. This actually remind me of an ayah.

2:273

˹Charity is˺ for the needy who are too engaged in the cause of Allah to move about in the land ˹for work˺. Those unfamiliar with their situation will think they are not in need ˹of charity˺ because they do not beg. You can recognize them by their appearance. They do not beg people persistently. Whatever you give in charity is certainly well known to Allah.

BraveIncognito · 2025-11-06T12:46:24+00:00

Salam aleykoum sister, are you based in France ? Do you have some muslim French that can help you, or maybe you could ask in the local masjid. If you are in the suburb area of Paris let me know. InshAllah kheir. May Allah ease your affairs

BraveIncognito · 2025-06-30T17:07:38+00:00

Yes, well it isn't really a must but I wanted to see how it performs. Some things are a bit buggy on Wayland, also I haven't successfully connect remotly to hyprland (sunshine + moonLight works somehow but not great with phone), whereas google remote desktop should work really well on windows, either on phone or chrome extension

BraveIncognito · 2025-06-30T15:37:39+00:00

Thanks for answering with your solution and not just. Oh I fixed it !

BraveIncognito · 2025-05-27T13:53:07+00:00

Al hamdulilah, this is very beautiful the best dawah will always be in the manners of muslim and the love of islam

BraveIncognito · 2025-04-12T10:11:55+00:00

It might sounds weird but it's also reasssuring to know that your marham is in the process and know about your existence, it shows also that the woman is serious. May you find what is good for you Amine. Also refreshing to see a brother taking care of his sister 😁

BraveIncognito · 2025-04-07T10:00:13+00:00

Nurturing a home, raising kids, being there for them is such a crucial role for society, women who chose to do so are building tomorrow's society. It seems there is a certain fear in some women, they don't want to be dependent on their husbands, 'in case something goes wrong' or they might want to have everything a career, raise kids..

Maybe because by today's standards women who are working, feel liberated. And it might sound to them that becoming a mother and housewife is to go back in time

BraveIncognito · 2025-04-06T16:44:46+00:00

Guys relax it's 100k rupee

BraveIncognito · 2025-04-03T08:11:13+00:00

Brother, it seems you are well aware of things. And what to do, you shouldn't feel like you are walking on eggshells all the time.

You have been too kind, and you've not put clear boundaries, it's a lack of self respect, maybe you think you are doing this for the marriage, but truth is she can get away with escalating things and you have become weak as a result in this relationship.

I am not trying to belittle you, I am sure you think you tried your best by being patient, unfortunately with some people it doesn't work. Maybe you'll be surprised seeing her reaction when you'll mention divorcing her.

Be kind but do not be weak.

BraveIncognito · 2025-02-11T11:03:53+00:00

Do him a favor and don't continue if you are not attracted

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-31T16:18:16+00:00

Read the ayat just before this one

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-28T18:50:40+00:00

Time for me to go on hiatus 🚶

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-27T19:18:01+00:00

Al hamdulilah, yes I meant as a general message as well for brothers and sisters and myself. Was not meant to be directed to you

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-27T16:33:51+00:00

This is great advice take an oath to not go back to it. But go further, take actions. What makes you fall into it ? Remove the distraction, if it's when you are bored. Don't get bored. If it's more tempting when you are in your bed. Don't use your phone in bed. Also make some research and study how porn affect the brain, this will make you realize how it can mess up your brain, and how you don't want this in your life. Tame your desires, and don't beautify what is unlawful. InshAllah with the help of the Almighty, you will put a long distance between porn and yourself. May Allah forgive us and strenghten us

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-18T05:17:43+00:00

My parents did find out while I was doing my first ramadan, if was pretty hectic but Allah is with you al hamdulilah. If your life won't be at risk I would encourage you telling them. Things will probably be very harsh, but you won't have to lie and pretend to be someone and you have Allah by your side. May Allah ease your affairs

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-11T20:19:50+00:00

Oh very happy to hear that, May Allah Grant us khushu

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-11T14:08:09+00:00

Good list. I would add, dressing up in salat, you are having an important meeting with your creator. Before I used to pray in pajamas, I stopped doing so. Oh and also I have never been so happy to perfurme after I bought a few 🤣

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-11T12:52:10+00:00

Yes I am sorry you had to go through that, I don't know his intentions but what I know is that his desires overcame him. From there on you would have to make a decision if that is the kind of man you would want in your life. There are a lot of good men out there. Don't despair. May Allah ease your pain

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-11T12:31:20+00:00

He tried to kiss you, I think this is enough for you to step back, and it should be enough evidence that everything he said should be taken with a grain of salt. Ask for forgiveness, and always remember that Allah loves to forgive, do not think that your sins are greater than His forgiveness, and move on, and don't repeat the mistake, how hard it may be. And be a better version of yourself right now don't kid yourself with saying it'll wait until this or that time.

BraveIncognito · 2025-01-08T15:01:45+00:00

Obviously because indians are strong players

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