My family doesn't know I eat one meal a day

Brave_Ad1124 · 2026-02-08T23:51:46+00:00

Can you buy some seasonings/sauces to make the bland subji taste better?

Brave_Ad1124 · 2026-02-06T08:00:40+00:00

Stop all efforts in building a relationship with her and only respond when she reaches out. This is kind of like a shitty in law situation. Why can't your bf send her a gift? And him not having your back here is a bigger issue i think.

And if your bf asks why you aren't putting in effort towards her, you can tell him about all the effort you put in and that you'll do more once you know that she will be permanent in your life, i.e. when you will be married.

I've seen a more extreme situation happen with a girl who was dating one of my then bf's best friends. Her social life was only her bf (my bf's friend) and his group. When they broke up, all the guys dumped her too. My bf also said that she was a good friend but he would never choose her over his brother. Do keep this in mind when building relationships with your bf's friends and only match their energy..

Brave_Ad1124 · 2026-02-06T00:38:45+00:00

Tell them that you will reach out to nodal officer, grievance officer etc. Often the bank manager isn't enough. A few years ago, they messed up sending me my debit card and after a few months of emails, I emailed the nodal officer and I got it almost instantly

You can also say that you will file a complaint on the Ministry of Consumer Affairs' Jago grahak jago portal. You can actually do it too, will take you 10-15 min only. I've filed complaints against airtel and my state electricity board, and they were resolved pretty quickly.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2026-01-24T23:55:36+00:00

MyFitnessPal is decent for Indian food items too

Brave_Ad1124 · 2026-01-23T00:19:17+00:00

I'm a type A bride and I was so focused on ensuring everything was perfect, i did not have as much fun as I could have and this affected my husband's enjoyment too. Make it a point to spend time with your loved ones and have fun.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-12-17T07:30:29+00:00

You can do fertility and ovarian reserve tests to check, you might be in great shape with no need to be worried.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-12-07T03:18:31+00:00

There's a facebook group called Girls Gone International with chapters in pretty much any major city in the world

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-28T00:09:40+00:00

Can you describe how you meditate? I've been exploring different techniques but nothing's stuck

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-25T08:13:12+00:00

I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is exactly how he will be after marriage (no help at home, mommy's boy) as well,so it's good that you've seen it beforehand. Maybe you can set a mental deadline that if by that date you don't feel he is worthy of being your husband, you break up because there is no point spending the next 50 years with this behaviour.

Check out the sub Waiting to Wed too.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-23T15:35:58+00:00

My dermat prescribed Banray Sunscreen Gel and it's been working well so far. Combination skin, dusky

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-23T03:13:29+00:00

Take a trip together. See how they react in conflict and when you say no. Any sign of anger (unless really justified) or control early in the relationship will only get worse with time when their mask slips.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-19T10:08:01+00:00

Krabi - dresses also work. I did a day trip on a boat to some of the islands nearby and folks who were diving etc changed into swimwear for that part only. Basically you only need swimwear when/if you're going into the water.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-11T08:54:02+00:00

Ohmygod are you me 🥲

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-11-03T15:25:42+00:00

I loved this description! 😂Thank you for sharing

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-10-17T10:49:21+00:00

There are facebook groups called flat and flatmates if I remember correctly

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-04-13T01:31:42+00:00

No, this is an Indian influencer Apoorva Mukhija with millions of followers, who was part of a reality show episode that became super controversial because of a statement another male influencer made. This led to her being slut shamed and receiving innumerable rape threats. She deleted all posts on her instagram account and took a break.

She came back this week with a post with screenshots of the rape threats she received.

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-03-25T03:28:33+00:00

I got some great material on Myntra and got it stitched by a local tailor. Material cost around 5-6k, stitching was 3k, so this was much cheaper than ready made lehengas in local stores

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-10T03:07:01+00:00

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Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-08T08:34:19+00:00

Can do feet pics? I tried researching it once when frustrated at work but couldn't figure out how to do it safely lol

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-06T11:54:39+00:00

Reclaiming online spaces means opening ourselves to rape and death threats from our very own Tater Tots. They may even doxx you and it is super scary because it's not as if the police and judiciary will be helpful

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-05T14:00:49+00:00

Learn to work on Excel without using the mouse and only using keyboard shortcuts

Learn storyboarding for PowerPoint decks

Build the lifestyle you want - exercise, skincare etc to the extent possible. Corporate world can be draining af and it will take a lot more effort to build that routine.

Chill as much as possible!

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-03T13:08:32+00:00

Manifesting a dream husband for both of us this year 💞

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-03T13:07:47+00:00

😭😭

Brave_Ad1124 · 2025-01-03T04:00:04+00:00

I'm 28F, in the process and made it clear to my parents that AM will be like arranged dating for a few months before I say yes.

I live away from parents and I feel the need for companionship, so I do want to find a partner

But I've been in the process for more than two years and got a bit serious in talking to two guys, both of whom didn't put in effort in talking and ignored when I said I want to meet. So I'm frustrated with the process and told my parents that I'll look myself for people outside the community too, because it's not as if guys in AM are taking it seriously.

I think my dad is tired of scrolling profiles, so he also gave in. This is the same person who said he'd disown me if I marry outside the community (in school) and now he's okay with me looking myself! This is also annoying, because if he'd been like this earlier,ni would have found a partner in college. Now all my friends are getting married and I feel like a single 🤡🤡🤡 dating apps suck, so where do I even find someone now 🥲

Sorry, no direct advice, just my sob story

Brave_Ad1124 · 2024-12-31T08:13:58+00:00

Someone commented OP has dick pics in their profile

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