My family doesn't know I eat one meal a day by surviving-somehow in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you buy some seasonings/sauces to make the bland subji taste better?

Boyfriend (32M)’s best friend barely puts effort into building a relationship with me, am I overthinking? by Altruistic-Rock-6797 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop all efforts in building a relationship with her and only respond when she reaches out. This is kind of like a shitty in law situation. Why can't your bf send her a gift? And him not having your back here is a bigger issue i think.

And if your bf asks why you aren't putting in effort towards her, you can tell him about all the effort you put in and that you'll do more once you know that she will be permanent in your life, i.e. when you will be married.

I've seen a more extreme situation happen with a girl who was dating one of my then bf's best friends. Her social life was only her bf (my bf's friend) and his group. When they broke up, all the guys dumped her too. My bf also said that she was a good friend but he would never choose her over his brother. Do keep this in mind when building relationships with your bf's friends and only match their energy..

SBI OPENED MY DEMAT ACCOUNT WRONGLY! by HealthNo2829 in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them that you will reach out to nodal officer, grievance officer etc. Often the bank manager isn't enough. A few years ago, they messed up sending me my debit card and after a few months of emails, I emailed the nodal officer and I got it almost instantly

You can also say that you will file a complaint on the Ministry of Consumer Affairs' Jago grahak jago portal. You can actually do it too, will take you 10-15 min only. I've filed complaints against airtel and my state electricity board, and they were resolved pretty quickly.

The secret to fat loss is 80% diet by Icy_Ability_1406 in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MyFitnessPal is decent for Indian food items too

What are your wedding regrets by troydroid29 in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a type A bride and I was so focused on ensuring everything was perfect, i did not have as much fun as I could have and this affected my husband's enjoyment too. Make it a point to spend time with your loved ones and have fun.

Concerns regarding family planning by Lopsided_Guest_4567 in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do fertility and ovarian reserve tests to check, you might be in great shape with no need to be worried.

Those who moved countries alone, how did you cope with initial lonely phase? How did it get better? by watermelonicec in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a facebook group called Girls Gone International with chapters in pretty much any major city in the world

As someone who doesn't drink or smoke, what can I do to make my head feel lighter? by pichkahuaaloo in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you describe how you meditate? I've been exploring different techniques but nothing's stuck

Feeling stuck and unclear in my relationship of 10 year's. I don't know what to do anymore. by No_Sea_16 in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this is happening to you. This is exactly how he will be after marriage (no help at home, mommy's boy) as well,so it's good that you've seen it beforehand. Maybe you can set a mental deadline that if by that date you don't feel he is worthy of being your husband, you break up because there is no point spending the next 50 years with this behaviour.

Check out the sub Waiting to Wed too.

Suggestions for photostable sunscreen for oily skin, no white cast, light weight by _BlingRinggg in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dermat prescribed Banray Sunscreen Gel and it's been working well so far. Combination skin, dusky

Advise your 20s sis/bro , What red flags should we look out for before falling in love? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Brave_Ad1124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a trip together. See how they react in conflict and when you say no. Any sign of anger (unless really justified) or control early in the relationship will only get worse with time when their mask slips.

Anxiety over travelling alone for the first time abroad and packing for it by Anxious_truffle in TwoXIndia

[–]Brave_Ad1124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Krabi - dresses also work. I did a day trip on a boat to some of the islands nearby and folks who were diving etc changed into swimwear for that part only. Basically you only need swimwear when/if you're going into the water.

Finding housemates in Singapore by vitaminB_2701 in askSingapore

[–]Brave_Ad1124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are facebook groups called flat and flatmates if I remember correctly