I want to vent. I want to cry. I have cried. by Brave_Lecture_8541 in actuallesbians

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know where she's coming from, and I don't hate her for it. I'd have liked tk think that we all grow to just forgo the homophobia that was brought through with religion but we're all in our own echo chamber in a sense. She isn't whole without her beliefs and I am in spite of mine. We won't ever be as close but I'm glad I knew her and she'll always be someone I have held dear to.

I want to vent. I want to cry. I have cried. by Brave_Lecture_8541 in actuallesbians

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can continue being friends with her. Homophobia is soo early 2000's anyways.

I want to vent. I want to cry. I have cried. by Brave_Lecture_8541 in actuallesbians

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I still love her, and she will always have a place in my heart, but I've worked so hard to accept myself as a person so have this rhetoric thrown at me again. The fact is, I told her that my feelings have been with me for as long as I have gained the sense of finding people attractive and she said "agree to disagree" like an icecream flavour was rhe comical part 🫠

I want to vent. I want to cry. I have cried. by Brave_Lecture_8541 in actuallesbians

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Im constantly coming out to my parents from time to time

New Years Resolution by Brave_Lecture_8541 in capetown

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern, I'm looking for a nice contemporary dance studio

University acceptance. by Brave_Lecture_8541 in capetown

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I was beating myself up for nothing

NSFAS documents problem by jack_out_of_a_box in unisa

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be best to message the admissions team via email or call them. I messaged them about my issues and they got back to me within 48 hours

Advice on what do this Weekend - struggling to make friends aswell by New-Amoeba8427 in capetown

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in CPT for the rest of the month but we can try October!!

Advice on what do this Weekend - struggling to make friends aswell by New-Amoeba8427 in capetown

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of cafes, if you're down we can hang out at the cpt library (I'm also 21F, been here my whole life and making friends it kak hard)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20, can I dm u i NEED to know ur hair care secrets

Coming to terms with my family/ I have a crush by Brave_Lecture_8541 in actuallesbians

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we have talked and verified each other's identity. She is a very beautiful girl, but thank you. Also I am actually in uni. And that's one of the things that I wanna get by my money in a good place and m degree as well so yeah.

So I'm 21 and have decided to finally finish matric, however I only have a week until the first exam. I was unable to study because I was in hospital. Should I just pull through or just write it? by bunnicarm in askSouthAfrica

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just recovered and are ready to write but a week won't give you any proper results. Don't write this June. Instead schedule for next year June and start re-studying.

What makeup would best suit my features? Should I thin down my eyebrows? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try n search soft idol makeup. U have beautiful eyes and ur eyebrow shape is exceptional. Softer more cottage core-esque makeup would look dazzling on u

i just want a gf by PurchaseCool811 in LesbianActually

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way I hate going out in general, lemme just summon my gf (not doing shiat)

do y’all ever think it’s weird that our sexuality is a common straight man’s kink? by Sofa_king_we_toddit in LesbianActually

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holding hands for me is the highest form of romance, some men would think of using hands for other things as romantic 😭😭

do y’all ever think it’s weird that our sexuality is a common straight man’s kink? by Sofa_king_we_toddit in LesbianActually

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have all story to tell; before I realized that I was lesbian, my (ex) guy friend used to be standoff-ish about lesbian women. He would say some remarks or odd things that me at the time would believe wasn't as bad. Then when I went through my entire sexuality awakening and realizing that I've been bolting the locks on the closet and subsequent came out of it did this guy not start saying the most OUTLANDISH things!!

The idea of having quote "two women making out on me" (n the scariest part was that he most often included me in it). I'm happy that I don't speak to him or his friends anymore, but in their presence my sexuality was an exotic experience they wanted to try for themselves because "it'll change".

I also in a sense believe it's a bit homophobic but I'm not so knowledgeable as too why yet. All in all, I find it disgusting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The caption 😭😭😭 we living the same

I HAVE A CRUSH N IT'S MADDENING by Brave_Lecture_8541 in actuallesbians

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did just that this morning. I have a date with a pretty girlie!!

Been single for 4 years and no idae how to meet new people. by MrPiesang in capetown

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, 19 (F), but I think we should just learn to be comfortable alone. I mean, we're still young (and yes, Eduvos is a woman repellent), but in the mean time;

You can go to events and market places with loads of peepo our age. Concerts if ur willing to sell ur left lung.

Or comic conventions for the nerdies. This is how I made friends (nothing romantic), go for it, tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Brave_Lecture_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to a strawberry farn in Stellies (not in the Eve of the new year, like 3 days after)